Re: How to get my life back and stay out of bed.
Sounds like you need a new doc... you need someone prepared to do blood tests and officially diagnose you, if you feel that your adrenals dont work at all. Im not sure about the thyroid/AD relationship in regards to meds, but both definitely need to be taken into consideration. Im on 25mg a day (15/5/5), and sometimes take an extra 5mg per day during patches of fatigue. Try adjusting your dose a little bit yourself (I suggest going up 2.5 or 5mg for a couple of weeks) and see what, if any, difference it makes. If an improvement, continue this new dosage permanently (tell your doc when you see them). I've had AD long enough that I feel confident doing this myself without an endocrinologists advice (although i tell them when i see them, and they approve), as they can be difficult at times. Ive always had everchanging needs for dosage as I was growing and as my lifestyle has changed, so my doses have always needed changing too. If you want to try extra meds just when you know you are doing something high energy, take them on the day, not after.
From my own life, I can live fatigue free when my dosage is correct. If I am fatigued, something is wrong (e.g. I have another illness which is draining my energy, so I need more meds). When I am completely healthy = fatigue free and a drive for life!
Best of luck