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Old 05-16-2003, 05:33 PM   #1
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Lord..i don't know where to begin..okay, let's see...i am older (51) but still look and feel great..feel like i'm 30 something. I found out about 2 years ago that my husband had several online sex affairs (three years worth) and it was a result of his sex addiction. We have, fortunately, gotten help, are beginning to move on and now our marriage is probably better than it's been in a long time, except for my security issues.

My security and sexuality is at a low. It's getting better, but i'm wondering if the real truth is that men just want younger women the older they get. Is this true? I really want to know.

 
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Hi Annie
I'm 43 and my wife is 49. We have been married for 22 years. I have no plans on trading her in any time soon. Personally speaking I find older women (I don't think 51 is old) attractive and just as sexy as thier younger counterparts. There is something of a turn on about a mature women who has had some life expieriences and just gives off an air of confidence. I'm sure not all men share this view point but I can't believe most are looking to go after the young stuff either as a way to prove thier masculinity. JC

 
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Thank you so much for your reply...I appreciate it!

 
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I was hoping for a few more replies, opinions etc...as women my age do wonder about this.

 
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annie7~

I hope you're not disappointed with me responding, since I'm not male.

I think young women that are with old men like the attention and the money. I believe it wears off though and then they want someone their own age.

When I was younger I thought flirting and getting attention from older men was fun and exciting but later it sucked. Who wants a bowling pin physique, balding, and probably partially impotent, worn out old man when you can have a young,tanned, 100% sexually functional, chiseled abdomen with a muscular body, on your arm.

Young women don't give a flip about them. Look at Anna Nicole. Mr. Marshall just wanted her attention, but she was always off partying with younger guys no doubt. She really did a number on him. Poor Mr. Marshall..God rest his soul.

Old men may want younger women but "those" women will soon be gone. They aren't going to be around to push his wheel chair, or spoon feed him.

Older men that do this are losing out on a great bonding relationship they have with their wife. In the end they are the LOSERS!!

Renee just my opinion~

[This message has been edited by reneeintx (edited 05-22-2003).]

 
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