This 40 thing is really bugging you isn't it?
I turned 40 last December and I've noticed a few things. It's all been gradual, nothing happens overnight.
It's harder to stay in shape. I have the fine lines... those dreaded wrinkles are coming... Ack! that's the worst. My back hurts more, my hair is slightly thinner.
But..... I'm smarter, I don't stress as much about petty things.... I know myself better.
It's not so bad. I sometimes wonder what 50 will be like. I told my husband he better not turn out to be one of those disgusting middle age men who rip on middle age women and oogle over 20 someting women. He laughed and told me not to worry. I actually look younger than he does (he's 42).... I think it sucks that society seems to allow men to age, but women have to totally stress about it.
Good luck-- focus on your good points-- I'm sure you have them!
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