Hello, this is my first post with yall, I am from the lymphoma board.
My father has been dx with Alzheimer by a neurologist and he too had MRI and cat scans but there were lots of blood tests and I remember the dr saying that my dad was positive with some type of protein in his blood and that was common with Alz. He is progressing too fast and my mom is having quite a time with him.I am not sure if he knows what he is saying sometimes or is it habit.He is becoming determined to do it and no one will tell him what to do.He balks the worst with my mom.My mom says that he eats good but when I am there to see him eat he picks or just does not want it. His favoorite answer is NO. He is reffusiing to go back to the dr, says he does not need to go to dr.We finally got the car away from him and then my mom let him drive and did not tell me, she will cover for him!She finally understands and I pray she will not let him drive ever again!He can not communicate too well it is like playing sharades to figure out his sentences,everything is" that stuff"he also gets real mean with my mom and he can not stand my son's wife and will sort her out and say real mean things to her, she understands that it is the Alz. My son lives with them amd helps out on his lunch break and then he is there after work, but I have him take weekends off, he is only 25 and this is alot for him. He is a good son to want to do this and he is helping me too since I am too ill myself to take care of it and I feel guilty cause I can not do it, it is my responsibility as their only child.So that is a bit of the history of our lives with Alz and there is much more. My mom needs some of yalls first hand advise on how to talk to my dad and manage him when he will not "mind" We want to keep him at home and take care of him as he took care of us for so many years...Please she needs help! She is just know facing reality of my dad's Alz.My mother will listen to yall before me, she has early deminia but still managing fine, just driving me crazy at times but I understand and will survive this, that is if I survive my own medical condition.Thanks for taking time in reading this and if you have any advise for my mom I will appreciate it...take care
gidget/sunshine
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