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Old 09-01-2005, 03:46 PM   #1
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Off to hospital ............

Last night, just as DH and I were getting ready to snuggle into our bed and sleep, I heard this Godalmight CRASH downstairs.

*sigh*

Downstairs we trot, to find all the lights on again in every room except the loungeroom in which was in darkness. I checked the bedroom. No MIL. I checked the other bedroom. No MIL, I crept into the loungeroom, whilst DH peeked into the dining room.

"Mum, what's happened?" I heard him say, and backtracked to the dining room. There I found her, flat on her back, moaning and making 'Ouchie" faces, with the rocking chair on it's side. I slipped in a huge puddle of urine, and almost collected the doorframe.

I took one look at her, and her unresponsiveness, and called the ambulance. I then went and sat with her, and comforted her. Checked her pulse (72bpm) and respirations (18) (good thing I've learnt that eh?) which was all happily within normal limites. But she was muttering, and obviously uncomfortable (and cold, she was on wet tiles!) I put a blanket over her, because she had no clothes on the lower half of her body, and we waited for the ambulance. She held my hand/s, quite tightly, fearing to let go. She had split her lip, and had a laceration over her right eye.

Ambulance turned up, and took my ob's nicely, got MIL onto a spinal board, and loaded her in the ambulance. By that stage, I had her holding her own hands . We went and got in the car and met her up at the hospital.

Her blood pressure was 220/110, and 15 minutes later was 199/101. 3 hours later it was still 199/95 .. still high ~ !!

We waited from 11pm to 1.30am to see a doctor, who finally turned up (I think because DH and I said we had to go home ...) and took down our information of the nights events and MIL's health. THEN they sent us home, because they were going to wake her up and check her out. She may yet have to have a CT scan this morning.

Now .. her behaviour whilst on the hospital bed : She was compliant and happy when awake'ish, then promptly started climbing out of the bed, quite agitated. The nurses got to her, and they managed to get her to the toilet, but with a puddle of urine trailing along. She soaked the few clothes she had on her. They cleaned her up, put a gown on her, and put her back to bed. She was giggling at this stage. They put a warm blanket on her that she LOVED ... and was happy happy!! DH sat next to her, and she grabbed his arm and dragged it over her to her shoulder. He wasn't comfortable, but she had started to doze, so he just put up with it. (with a few pleading looks to me, but I stood my ground away from the bed .......) well, then she started to get agitated again, and fussed over the blanket (too heavy, not hot anymore) then settled, then fussed again, and started to climb out of bed. At this stage, the nurses were busy with their own run-away patient (young girl kept escaping from her bed to have a shower ... psych consult on his way) and they asked me to take her to the toilet and get a urine sample.

I did !!! Not without numerous puddles, cause MIL didn't make it again, soaked her gown, so I got her into a dry one (with DH's help, he was hovering outside the bathroom) and we got her back to bed. New hot blanket again .. she liked that one even more!!

So .. we got home at 2am .. finally fell asleep, it's now 7.43am and we're getting the kids ready for school so we can take them and then dash up to the hospital.

In between that, I'm going to try and get onto ACAT and tell them of the nights events. I'm HOPING that they'll admit MIL for proper assessment ...but it depends, of course, if they have a bed available.

Fingers crossed. I'll keep you updated.

I hate this disease, I really do.

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Re: Off to hospital ............

Please keep us informed Sally.

As horrible as the night was, it may be the final link in the chain that gets Mum into some kind of serious care and not home alone much of the time .. and also lets YOU off the hook. The BP was much too high .. did she forget some of her tablets (or all of them) or take 2 or 3 days' worth???

The only answer to the constant urine driblbling is adult diapers (nappies) called 'Depends' here, but there are many store brands much cheaper .. and just as good ... this is a necessity now that she slipped and fell because of one of her own puddles ..

Best wishes for a quick resolution to these issues...

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Re: Off to hospital ............

Oh dear!!!

Sally, it's so scary to imagine this and worse if MIL is on her own. I know that awful certainly is something you and Alan are trying to prevent. Bless your hearts!

That BP is through the roof! She should certainly be in hospital until the reason for it being so high is found. It's amazing that MIL didn't have a stroke. BIL cannot pretend this is imaginary or an overreaction.

As Martha said, hope this is the ticket that gets MIL the 24/7 care she needs so badly. She needs a cook, a minder, and someone to give her medicines to her (and watch as each is swallowed!). By the time my mother was showing these behaviors, she was in the ALF and soon headed to the locked unit.

You did so well in monitering MIL's vital signs as best you could and by keeping her warm and comforted. The ambulance attendants surely appreciated a coherent and helpful report on the patient!! Goodonya!

Did you have to go to class? Staying tuned for the outcome.

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Re: Off to hospital ............

Fortunately, today was a day off classes .. PHEW !!

oK .. We went back to the hospital this morning to find MIL alot more alert, but still very subdued. That didn't last long. She started getting feisty. She wanted to go to the toilet and could barely stand, they had to use a bathchair, but an hour later, she leapt out of bed, tried to hit me and took off down the corridors .. one nurse walked past me and I said "She's gone ......." so they found her and brought her back. She had been up through the night after we left to go to the toilet by herself as well.

ACAT sent a lovely lady around to talk to us. They have MIL EXACTLY where they want her .. things can progress from here .............

however .................

BIL and "L" turned up and 'took over' Duty of Care. MIL had a CT scan, but only a quick one, only random slices taken, BIL went with her for that. MIL was cranky, and fed up with sitting in the bed, and was getting quite agitated. The hospital staff finally gave her some food (around 10am) and her medication. She started to settle after that.

Her BP is still 165/95 and fluctuating, lower than last night, but still too high. We didn't get the result of her BGL (Blood glucose level).

Needless to say, she's not a happy camper. We came home this afternoon and left them all to it, Alan just mopped all the floors, I found dead meat in her WARDROBE, cutlery in the bedside table .. we cleaned up the mess .. as usual. And it sure smells better for the moment too! All the windows and doors are open.

ACAT caught us just before we left, and they REALLY want MIL to have some respite to be assessed. I told them they will have trouble with BIL allowing that to happen. They are going to tread carefully with their approach. This is a new lady, and MIL is famous ..LOL

I've also sworn ACAT to secrecy about me calling them ... BIL was WILD that they knew before he did ... and was demanding to know who contacted them ..... everybody just played dumb .. thank heavens.

So .. what's happening? Who knows. When we left, MIL had her golden boy by her side with his pretty girlfriend being 'helpful'.

Pity they only do it when necessary and not as required.

I am SO tired .... can't sleep however ...

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Re: Off to hospital ............

Hi Sally,

What a day and nite you have had - and you DH. If MIL comes home, you will have to try to do the Depends. I am sure the hospital, ACAT, and perhaps (hope, hope, hope!) the NH will insist on adult diapers!

I do hope for yalls and MILs sakes, that ACAT does their job this time and just ignores or works around and above BIL!!! I think that MIL is not a happy camper because: she has no alcohol, she is not at her own home, and she cannot do just exactly what she wants! I bet she could spit nails!!!

Are they giving her any meds? Just her regular ones? I imagine, tomorrow, they will start tests, if they have not already. I hope they do lots and lots of tests. Psch, geratric dr., neurologist and family dr., type tests!

I do hope she is not in any pain and that they keep her that way! Of course, with you around, you will see that they do everything right for MIL!

Take care. Try and rest, too. Wannabe


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