Well, It turned out that it she has a Yeast Infection. The Dr tested her for UTI, and she had a little bacteria in her urine.
She is taking meds and cream now to cure it. One reason is she has been sleeping in her Pantyhose. (Lives Alone)
She cannot live alone anymore.
We are currently planning to move her in with us and then see if she likes any of the AL around here. We have room for her here, her stuff we will put in storage less than a mile away.
She has so much stuff, but she is willing to donate a lot of it.
Her condo will be put up for sale.
I already spoke with her Elder Law Attorney about this plan and she approved of it. Says it is the right thing to do.
Mom thinks she is going to sell her 2 story condo to "downsize". I even found a picture of a home for sale, a condo, near my home she likes it. However, I know my Mom knows she needs a little help. She is probably in 4-5 stages now. She turns 66 next month.
So, I am going to be busy the next several weeks.
I got a Realtor for her old place, I have a person I trust going to help declutter, and I am working on getting a room with her own bathroom ready in our house. Need to move some stuff and seal a door that leads to the garage, well, maybe that can wait...
Also, I found a caregiver, for when we are at work. My DH has been off work on Worker's Comp, even injured he is spending 3 days a week with her.