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Old 02-15-2009, 01:36 AM   #1
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Final Update from CaringSister

To all my board-buddiesL
iBake, Martha, Deb, Lil Deb, Pam, Polina, Chris,Dorri, and many more I've come to know but too many to keep writing out here. My thanks for the towels, love, and support you shared with me over these few weeks.

Just wanted to share that my mother passed away at 1:10 A.M. today and has been allowed eternal peace with my Lord and others who passed before her. -- while this seems to have come as a surprise to my sister, it was something, as you all know, that we were expecting.

At least this dreaded disease has one less person to pull through the circus rings.

Keep everyone in each others thoughts and prayers. This horror that brought us all together is one of the presents God gave me when I use to ask him "why". I guess one of the reasons was "to meet and talk with others who are on the same road".

Its been a 15+ year long battle but at least her 'bad' wasn't until the last year or two but that felt like it was forever and tended to rob us of any memories we had of better times.

As the days progress, I know the better times memories wll start to come up and it will help us hopefully forget the horror of the last year. Kinda like when you had a baby and they place it in your arms after you suffered through 30+ hours of hard labor. You seem to forget all the pain the moment they place that baby in your arms and you stare into their faces.

One other blessing in all this -- we don't have to deal with the U.S. crap with medicaid, hospice, etc. Thank God and Amen. They've been a real bear to deal with and they know they do it when people are under the most stress

God Bless my Sister and all the caregivers for what you do, including those in facilities.

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Re: Final Update from CaringSister

Dear Diane,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss When my mother passed away I felt a strange mixture of feelings, and you may also. Relief that her suffering was over, sadness that I would no longer hear her voice, and deep grief. As a daughter of a dementia victim you have already started grieving long before she died.

I wish you peace as you go through the arrangements for your Mom's funeral. When you see her lying in that coffin, remember that she is not there. That is only the last outfit she wore. Her real self is alive and well and free from every trace of irrationality. I already told you how my Mom left me a red feather here in Indiana while I was in NY at her funeral. There is no time or space limitation where she is now.

I pray that God will give you the strength for the next few days. He will. You have been and always will be a caring sister.

Love and prayers,

Martha

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Re: Final Update from CaringSister

I'm so sorry for your loss, Diane....but she is now free and whole again. I wish you peace in the coming days, and know that she is in a much better place. I hope your sister is able to get through this....reading about how your sister was dealing with all of this reminds me of how my oldest brother handles things....with blinders on. When I called him to tell him of mom's passing last month, he bawled and couldn't believe it.

Like Martha said, the grief period is so long for those who are affected by dementia. I felt like I had been grieving for 3 years....each day a little more of mom left us, and each day a little more grief.

Know that your mom is now free, and is smiling down on both of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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I truely believe they are going in a much better place. They are happy and free. We will all be together in the end. Much harder for us to see them go. Take care and thank you for all your wisdom that you have give me. I will put you in my prayers.

Cheryl

 
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Re: Final Update from CaringSister

Dear Diane...

Sending you prayers and sympathies this morning, so sorry to hear this news. I hope you and your sister can find some peace now knowing your mother is no longer suffering and is at peace. But for now, I know it is a terrible loss, and I want to offer my support and prayers......

God bless you all at this time......
Love, Caroline xo

 
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