Well it's been awhile and I have GREAT NEWS... FIL is gone to Wa along with BIL (mooch) and we now have our home back! Even took down the handicap ramp!
MIL is declining, somedays she seems to have some knowledge and presence and most days she is back in the 60s now.
She doens't notice her husband gone, but does at times know her other son is missing.
She thinks that my hubby is having an affair with Theresa (that's me) and she is very upset!
Other times she is driving to the desert to visit with some nice people who she has no idea who they are.
Two days ago a woman died next to her in the dinning area where she was, she never noticed, it freaked my husband out!
I'm on the mend, and starting to strighten out ALL the mess left behind ny my FIL and BIL! And I am excited that Spring is here in Ma!