Back in March I was at my wits end and couldn't sleep because we were dealing with trying to move my MIL to an Alzheimer's care facility and we had so much opposition from know it all family members who had opinions but offered no help. So many of you offered so much helpful support. In the middle of the night!!! I was feeling so alone and suddenly there were so many of you relating similar experiences and I was so appreciative.
To update we did manage to move my MIL. It wasn't easy by any means. The family members were still not helpful. But we did what was necessary because she needed the care. I am pleased to say she has surprisingly settled into the care facility. She is getting along. She is social. She goes on outings. Not everything has been perfect but I would have never thought that she would actually be able to manage in that new environment. Most days she thinks she works there. She used to be a nurse so she mostly helps others and thinks it is a private hospital! I say whatever makes her happy. She has a life now.
Thank you all for your support when I needed it