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Old 06-24-2004, 08:10 PM   #1
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I just get so angry

Hi all I am a small person about 5'4 I am not growing I still am not even half way through puberty but my muscles are huge and when bigger people push me and make fun of me because my teeth are crooked I just hit them and start fights. I mean they think because I am small I will not fight back but since I have gone to middle school (I am going to high school) they end up losing. Ever since this I have been getting angry very easy I mean my strength is unbelievable for my size so I use it to my advantage. There is nothing wrong in my life really I just get so angry over little things. What should I do I know how to calm myself down I just do not people just do not seem to listen to me or respect me until I show them my anger?

 
Old 07-20-2004, 06:06 AM   #2
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Re: I just get so angry

V-man, I think that since you have such a big size, it has worked for you so far to use physical strength in your confrontations with people. We can get use to this very easily and people will continue to use what works for them.

I think that you should start trying a different approach to handling situations with people because there are other ways out there to deal with things thats not physical. You should look into them and not use your strength for awhile. This will at least make it not so automatic for you to use physical solutions.

Its going to take time to get use to another approach but if you dont want problems in the future then you should start working on this now. Remember, not everyone you come across will listen to you, sometimes there are things that happen with people that are better left as is because its not worth to pursue.

Good luck.

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Old 07-21-2004, 10:06 AM   #3
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Re: I just get so angry

My husband is 5'7. I feel he overcompinsates his aggresiveness because of his size. He wants to show people they can't push him around becuase he is not very tall. I don't have a solution...just wanted to share.

 
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