Why is it that things we cannot control we get so angry? - Anger Management Message Board

HeyThere · 05-31-2003, 10:13 AM

Why is it that we get so angry/bent out of shape when we can have no control over it. I can't stand d++b people-- not those who can help it; but those who choose to be, when there are billions of people that would love the opportunity to have food, water and shelter-you know the basics like limbs, eyesight, muscle control, and no physical abuse or no mental abuse. I am so frustrated that most people don't have a clue to their purpose. People are so full of themselves. I really can't believe that people actually prefer to be in an medically or chemically alterd state zombie than participate in life by pulling their weight or pulling themselves up by their bootstraps and making something out of themselves. Don't they know that being is the power to interact and everything is relative and the laws of nature and there is a power that we all make up and they are not doing their share. The more I read. The information is out there they just have to ask for pete's sake what has happened to all the good values that America use to have and teach.

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anamariac · 07-01-2003, 02:09 AM

who are you so angry with?
really,with what do you relate your anger?
who made you so angry and who went so against your values?
i think you could talk about this.get into more specific facts..otherwise your frustration will increase....

islandgoddess · 07-15-2003, 03:01 PM

Heythere! I agree with you 100%

I don't understand why people can't pull there own weight either. I am so grateful for what I have. And I work hard for it too! There are alot of people out there that would kill for what I have. I just think this society is so screwed up! Most people believe everything is owed to them, well I hate to break it to them ITS NOT!!!

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HeyThere · 09-05-2003, 08:19 PM

I am venting -I have so much anger and venemous hate toward someperson right now that I could implode. everytime I think I am getting my life back to where it was before I met him 7 years of a hellish reminder sends me to remember all the crap I endured topped off with some newly revealed truths of all the lies and crap-I can feel the adrenaline building and I know I am going to have a shaking waking crying screaming nightmare. Hopefully with me leting this out here I won't. My heart is racing and I am on the verge of shaking and crying-I think I am going to lose it. I took me 3 years to overcome these crappy memories and I might have just represed because last December I had to document everything and I had a major shaking waking crying nightmare I couldnot stop shaking and crying. I don't drink or smoke or do drugs or believe in them for me -someone worse off talk to me remind me of what I wrote above and how youv'e overcome your anger.