how to stop verbal abuse between husband and wife - Anger Management Message Board

rachel1984 · 10-05-2007, 12:17 PM

my husband of three years has been a roller coster since the honeymoon. he was my best friend before we got married and now it seems like everytime things are going well and we get along and love each other, something small and stupid makes hime blow up and put me down inside and out. And then in a few minutes, she gets over it and falls all over himself apologizing. Everytime I go back. Even though when times are good, when he blows up it seems like it outweighs the good. we have one little girl together and I was brought up with a loving family so i want the same for her. he loves her and would be devistated if we ever left. I know what I should do.....leave. Please help me want to really do it, how can I find it in me to do it. help!

Phoenix · 10-13-2007, 10:13 AM

Dear Rachel,

I will not tell you that leaving is a good or bad thing.

You state that you were raised in a loving environment but your daughter is not.

Ask yourself what you want out of life for both you and your daughter and then is it possible to attain these goals in this setting.

Take care and God Bless.

Phoenix

rosequartz · 10-19-2007, 03:33 PM

do a little research, he may be bi-polar or borderline personality disorder (BPD)
you need to either get this to stop or get out of this environment.
it's not healthy