Re: Problem with my husband
I understand what you're going through as far as the anger goes. I'm sorry for your loss.
I don't know if seeing a couples therapist would help much, if he wont talk to you about it then what are the chances of him talking to a total stranger about it? Although it might work, you might want to suggest it to him - only lightly so he dosnt feel like you're pressuring or pushing him into going.
As for the anger management - that's the best idea for him. Maybe if he dosn't have the drive to actually go and arrange it for himself then you could speak to him, ask him if he would still be willing to go through with it and if he says yes then maybe you should contact the people you need and sort it all out for him (asking him when a good time would be etc) so that all he has to do is show up there. Sometimes people do want to do things but are weary of taking the steps to actually do them, so maybe he needs a little help with getting it all done.
OR you could encourage him to write it down, his troubles. Maybe in the form of a journal or a bl0g, that way he can get used to writing it all down, getting it all out and maybe when he's comfortable enough he'll show you what he's written.
It's always hard trying to help people who just wont let you help them, but I really hope things get better for you, it's not nice living with an angry partner but he's obviously a good guy for never laying a finger on you, so don't give up on it. =] Goodluck!
Last edited by Kovian; 01-07-2008 at 04:48 PM.