Re: What to do when my wife gets me angry?
Your wife is fortunate to have a husband who cares about her feelings like you do, and that you recognize how your occasional outburst hurt her. If you only have a few times a year to overcome, it should be pretty easy.
When you feel the anger come up, step back, take 50 breath's, count to 100, or whatever number you need, before you speak, or act. Spend those moments focusing on your love for your sweet wife.
Lovingly explain to your wife that your will not yell at her anymore, and ask her to support your efforts to change your behavior. I'll bet she will feel very happy to help, and love you even more.
It can be easy to act out on those who we love the most, but to respect and treasure the ones you love the most, will serve you forever. Fear and intimidation do not work in matters of love and trust.
I think you are well on your way to being a real man, because you care, and protect.
Last edited by writeleft; 07-19-2009 at 10:41 PM.