Re: my husband has anger built up and i dont know how to help him....
He sounds ike my stbx. I left him faster than my first ex who who was phyiscal abusive.
Words can hurt more becuae they seem to use them more than the phsyical abusers.
Truth is unless you can learn to live with it or he gets help it does not change. If he did not get therapy or help before chances are he will not. I am sorry. I bet he was sweet and kind in the beginning. most of these men are.