Thank you for the kind words. Tough love is tough for everyone involved, I guess. Sometimes I feel like I speak a different language from the 2 of them. It could be as simple as a male/female thing but I don't really think that is it. Also don't think we hear the same things while participating in the same conversation.
I think I need to concentrate on my own health and happiness. Just do what I need to do to remain calm.
As to the car insurance....He is driving one of our vehicles. I don't mind helping him but you are right, he needs to be helping himself also. He is a student but is going very sporatically.
I think I will start doing yoga again. I found it very calming.
Thanks again for the kind words.