I feel you have been misled.
Any drug in the SSRI can be helpful, while taking benzodiazepines, for anxiety/depression...
I have been taking Lexapro with Xanax for years and years, with no problems...
Unfortunately, some people taking these drugs are also prone to severe depression/suicide, so the drug is listed as the cause...
You just need to find what mix is good for you and if you get any strange feelings on them, let your doctor know and they will switch you. I had scary feelings on Cymbalta and Paxil and I just asked to be taken off b/c they made me feel weird...Finally, I got to a mix that helped.
Don't live with depression/anxiety b/c of fear of medication...
Sorry, whoever posted the message of a personal experience, I just wanted to shed some light on this subject...