Re: Being anxious makes people misunderstand you
It is true. No one can appreciate what people are feeling until they go through with it themselves. In any case, what do you care about what other people think of you? If they are so hasty in judging you without even getting to know you, then you have another serious reason not to care about them!
However, having said that, you seem to have anxiety because you worry that other people will find you not good enough and reject you. These are the underlying subconscious issues most of us carry along. The point is to try and build up our confidence so that we care less about other people and a little bit more about how we do really feel. The way to gain confidence is to do things you like. It could be regular exercise alone or with friends, starting up a hobby, joining a club, enjoying nature, caring for an animal and FINALLY, volunteering to help people in need. Especially the last one will give you the best ever feel good state of mind you will ever experience. I guarantee it. I have done all the things that I have suggested to you and my confidence has soared, enough to give advice to ... others!!!!!