Depressant_alien
06-04-2001, 07:06 PM
I'm 18 years old and have been diagnosed with severe depression every since September of 2000. My therypist told me that after six months I would see a change. I haven't yet. Instead I seem to be getting worse. I have no interest in anything anymore. I use to be so full of life and try new experiences and now I am someone who wants to be alone, which only causes break downs and ends in thoughts of suicide. I wish I could go back in time and be the person I use to be. Does anyone know of someone who could help me or what I could do. Depression isn't what I want the rest of my life. PLEASE HELP ME>
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eweejoe
06-04-2001, 07:35 PM
Are you on any type of anti-depressant? If you are, you need to tell your doctor it isn't working for you and that you want to try something new. Also, if you have been in therapy for 6 months with no change, seems like it might be time to change therapists. No one should OR has to go through life being depressed. There is help out there and you just need to find a doctor that will do what it takes for you to get back into life. Ask for new medications, or if you're not taking any...ASK for some. If you're not feeling any better then keep calling and urging and pushing until you get the therapy and/or medication you need.
Good Luck & Take Care!
Sherri.
Good Luck & Take Care!
Sherri.
cutenbrat
06-05-2001, 03:33 PM
I totally agree with Sherri on this one. I am also depressed and finding the right medication and treatment(or one or the other) is the key. It's hard to find the right medication and can be very frustrating-at times I feel like a guinny pig but if it means feeling better I'm all for it-long as side affects aren't too awful.
God Bless.
God Bless.
Braindead
06-20-2001, 05:02 PM
I think that first of all you need to find a new therapist. I have NEVER heard of one telling people when they would be better. I also agree with the others. You need to get to a psychiatrist and get on sme kind of antidepressant. Trust me, they work. And you won't be on it forever. I just got off mine, YAY! :-D My prayers go out to you.
ser
06-22-2001, 07:39 PM
Not knowing exactly whats up.. I would see your Dr and get serious and tell how you feel. Write it down as you may forget or be fogged. Make sure that other health issues such as thyroid have been checked and eliminated. If you are uncomfortable with your Dr or just don't care seek a second opinion. Things can get better. I wish you the best.
kristis2
06-24-2001, 08:06 PM
You also need to know that everyone will "get better" at different paces! No 2 depressed people are alike! And remember that it took time to develope the depression,it will take time to get through it as well! Take care and hang in there!! Kristi
julsforest
07-30-2001, 12:50 AM
There may be something more than just depression affecting your system. Going to a reputable physician for a complete exam may help. Depression is not fun. I am sure many of us have been there. There are medications, and I believe some do help. I also, would like to suggest getting involved in a Christ centered church and discuss your situation with the pastor and his wife.
Proverbs 3:5 and 6
Proverbs 3:5 and 6
Nice-T
08-01-2001, 03:29 PM
What kind of diet are you on? http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/idea.gif What you eat could also be affecting your mood. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/idea.gif Try eating plenty of veggies and fruits, try exercising 3-4 times a week. Walking might make you feel a whole bunch better. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dance.gif http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/dance.gif
HowWhyMe13
08-02-2001, 11:25 AM
I agree with braindead. No one can tell you when you get better. I think you need to find the right medicine. You said that before you loved experiencing new things. You should try them again. You might not feel up to it, if that is the way your feeling, but you should try it more often, go out places and have fun! I was kind of depressed before. I felt like killin my self. I even tried,but I found out that I was put here for a reason and if I wanted to find out why then I would have to keep livin. So I did all this fun stuff with my friends, and soon got better! I enjoy life much better now. I think you should give it a try. I also had a lot of goals I wanted to achieve. Like a singing career. I love singing and music. Its my passion!
Remember you were put here for a reason. so don't even think about killin ur self!
Remember you were put here for a reason. so don't even think about killin ur self!
chinadoll66102
08-05-2001, 04:54 AM
When i first read your topic, I started to cry, just because it reminded me of, well, me! Here are three things that you must always rememeber. this goes out to EVERYONE!
1. You're not alone. There are so many other dealing with these smae issues! Talk to them.
2. It WILL get better. It, most likely, will never go away compleatly. Once you get better, you may have relapses, that are ususally never as bad as the first one.
3. People care about you. They really do. You would hurt them if you killed yoruself. And plus, once you do, it's ALL over. Cherish life.
and also, anit-depressents usually work, and are generally safe! I myself feel like I am slipping a little back into my depression, but I'm trying not to. Pessimism is bad, by the way. Look at life brighter, and it will help you in the process of getting better!
1. You're not alone. There are so many other dealing with these smae issues! Talk to them.
2. It WILL get better. It, most likely, will never go away compleatly. Once you get better, you may have relapses, that are ususally never as bad as the first one.
3. People care about you. They really do. You would hurt them if you killed yoruself. And plus, once you do, it's ALL over. Cherish life.
and also, anit-depressents usually work, and are generally safe! I myself feel like I am slipping a little back into my depression, but I'm trying not to. Pessimism is bad, by the way. Look at life brighter, and it will help you in the process of getting better!
Tara A. Baldini
10-05-2001, 01:58 AM
Hi I just saw your ad. My father has had severe depression for over 2 years. He's been in the hospital for about a month. My friend also experienced it and I had it during my senior year in high school.
Tara A. Baldini
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Martyn Chilvers
10-05-2001, 07:26 AM
Recent reasearch has suggested that acupuncture can help depending upon the individual.....just another road to travel if you find others aren't helping.
Good luck
Good luck
Tara A. Baldini
11-30-2001, 10:40 PM
Hi how are you doing? I hope you are better now.
Tek
03-08-2002, 08:42 AM
Hi!
Please seek medical assistance as soon as possible!!! Suicidal thoughts should never go untreated. If your doctor isn't understanding or willing to refer you to a psychiatrist, see another doctor who will. You need help. I know, I was in the same position after a car accident when my whole life changed and my career was taken away from me because of an injury. I just withdrew myself from family and friends and spent a lot of time worrying and having terrible thoughts about the future. I am getting treatment now and although I am not over it yet, I can see some improvements. Medication is certainly helping me. See your doctor please! PS: God loves you!!!
Warm Wishes
Tek
Please seek medical assistance as soon as possible!!! Suicidal thoughts should never go untreated. If your doctor isn't understanding or willing to refer you to a psychiatrist, see another doctor who will. You need help. I know, I was in the same position after a car accident when my whole life changed and my career was taken away from me because of an injury. I just withdrew myself from family and friends and spent a lot of time worrying and having terrible thoughts about the future. I am getting treatment now and although I am not over it yet, I can see some improvements. Medication is certainly helping me. See your doctor please! PS: God loves you!!!
Warm Wishes
Tek
Tek
03-08-2002, 08:51 AM
Sorry, I guess loss of concentration is part of depression, thus I did not read in your message that you're already being seen by a therapist. There are lots of different kinds of medications and not all of them work for everyone. It's a process of seeing what works for you and there is bound to be something out there that will work for you. Mention to your therapist that you are feeling this way please. If you feel that you are not getting better, and that your therapist is not willing to look into changing your treatment, maybe seeing another psychiatrist might be the answer. I had to see 3 different ones before I found the right one. They were all different in their approach to treatment.
Lots of Love
Tek
Lots of Love
Tek
staceycronan
03-08-2002, 02:00 PM
The best thing that I can tell you to do is go out with friends even if you just want to stay in and be by yourself. You can always change what is inevitable. Keep your head up and smile because Jesus love you.
Hawk
03-10-2002, 02:43 AM
yeh I agree with Stacey on this one. I know it seems like no one cares but people do and some of the best things you can do are to get out and let the people that know and love you support you. My ex girlfriend was very depressed when I first starting getting interested in her. and though I never meant to date her,(I was mearly trying to be there for her) I ended up dating her for 18 of the happiest months of my life and though she has broke up with me I know for a fact taht she has a new outlook on life and she is just so happy now it makes my heart swell.
And though im not happy about being dumped I know that it was never going to last and that I coul be there for her while she was suffering made every difference to me.
Damn, now im all emotional... but people love you and care about you, dont let it all be for nothing.
And though im not happy about being dumped I know that it was never going to last and that I coul be there for her while she was suffering made every difference to me.
Damn, now im all emotional... but people love you and care about you, dont let it all be for nothing.