Tara A. Baldini
04-25-2002, 09:59 PM
Hi everyone just to let you know I have already broke the news to my mother. I'm staying here and going to start my own life. Again I want to thank everyone for their support.
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cadis31
04-25-2002, 10:23 PM
Hey Tara, I'm glad to see you put your foot down, I'm proud of you. I hope everything works out well for you, I know it will, so good luck to you, and take care. :D
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nicola76
04-26-2002, 08:45 AM
Congrats Tara! This is a step in the right direction believe me. :) Having your independence will feel so fufilling!
Take care and keep in touch.
Nicola :wave:
Take care and keep in touch.
Nicola :wave:
mikesgirl
04-26-2002, 12:18 PM
Congrats hun......keep us posted! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif
luv K
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No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
luv K
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No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
Tara A. Baldini
04-29-2002, 04:44 PM
Thanks for your support.
Tara A. Baldini
04-30-2002, 01:04 PM
I wanted to thank you all again for your support and understanding. I think that my mother is making me feel obligated to go to AZ. She wants me to go but the decision I will make is up to me. Whatever happens I'll keep you all posted.
Hawk
04-30-2002, 02:32 PM
Way to go :) I just moved myself 3 days ago. My dad spent every spare minute he had trying to con me into sticking around but I had to move so I did :) You need to stay so you will, Its hard eh? But trust me in the long run it is so worth it.
nicola76
04-30-2002, 03:32 PM
I was lucky enough that when my brother and I both moved out our parents encouraged us to "spread our wings & experience the world". Guess they couldn't wait for us to leave! :D *lol* Honestly though, they wished us well.
Just remember Tara that you're nearly 25 years old and you aren't obligated to do anything. If you really want to stay in MD you will.
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
Just remember Tara that you're nearly 25 years old and you aren't obligated to do anything. If you really want to stay in MD you will.
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
Tara A. Baldini
04-30-2002, 09:15 PM
Hawk, so you were in the same situation as I am now. I guess parents don't want to let their children go. My mother told me that the decision is mine. But she also told me that she would rather I go with the family. But like you said Nicola I shouldn't have to feel obligated to do anything. I feel that I belong right here where I am now.
Hawk
04-30-2002, 09:34 PM
You have to do whats right for you. not whats right for your mom.
Tara A. Baldini
04-30-2002, 09:36 PM
Yes I am going to do what's right for me.
nicola76
05-01-2002, 06:56 AM
When are your parents leaving for AZ Tara? Its time for you to live your own life and do what you want. Like Hawk said, you have to do what's right for you, not what's right for your mom.
What happened to the idea of maybe moving in with your sister or getting a place to share with friends?
Take care!
http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif Nic
What happened to the idea of maybe moving in with your sister or getting a place to share with friends?
Take care!
http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif Nic
Tara A. Baldini
05-01-2002, 01:16 PM
Nicola, my family is palnning to move by either the end of june or the beginning of july. It's not going to work out with my sister and I haven't really asked my friends yet. But I will see what I can do to stay where I feel I belong.
MudPuppy
05-01-2002, 02:15 PM
Hi Tara, So great to hear of your decision. I think your parents will eventually come around. I think they just need time to digest this major change in both your life and theirs. In the long run, they will be happy for you and for the decision you made.
Dan
Dan
Tara A. Baldini
05-02-2002, 07:31 PM
Yes things are going to work even if I have to make them work. I'm tired of being dragged all over the place.
Tara A. Baldini
05-05-2002, 12:21 AM
I am going to do whatever I can to come up with a solution. I just got a second job.
nicola76
05-05-2002, 09:49 AM
Congrats Tara!! :bouncing:
Take care!
Nic :wave:
Take care!
Nic :wave:
Tara A. Baldini
05-05-2002, 06:55 PM
Well the second job I just got is going to be selling Mary Kay products. Hopefully it will work out.
nicola76
05-06-2002, 05:21 AM
That sounds great Tara! You'll probably make some good money off of the commission. :D
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
Tara A. Baldini
05-06-2002, 07:00 PM
Nicola, I have decided to try doing it since I need the extra money. I am going to look for a roommate. Please wish me luck.
[This message has been edited by Tara A. Baldini (edited 05-06-2002).]
[This message has been edited by Tara A. Baldini (edited 05-06-2002).]
mikesgirl
05-06-2002, 09:09 PM
Tara, my b/f's mom sells Mary Kay, and she got a car out of it. A friend of hers even has the pink Cadillac. ;)
i wish you a lot of luck! K http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif
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i wish you a lot of luck! K http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif
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Tara A. Baldini
05-06-2002, 11:11 PM
Thanks. I'll be sure to keep you all posted on what happens.
nicola76
05-07-2002, 05:48 AM
Always wishing you loads of luck! :D Are you thinking of asking one of your friends to be a roommate?
Take care!
Nic :wave:
Take care!
Nic :wave:
Tara A. Baldini
05-07-2002, 01:06 PM
Nicola, I asked my friends to help me. They are going to look for me. Also I'm going to look in the paper. Things in my family have gotten very bad and if I don't move out soon I'm going to lose my mind.
nicola76
05-07-2002, 01:15 PM
Tara,
Trust me I know what that's like! Just keep looking and see if one or two of your friends want to share a place. Expenses and rent will be cheaper if you share an apartment. Within a year or so you could have enough money to get a place to yourself. :)
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
Trust me I know what that's like! Just keep looking and see if one or two of your friends want to share a place. Expenses and rent will be cheaper if you share an apartment. Within a year or so you could have enough money to get a place to yourself. :)
Take care and good luck!
Nic :wave:
tweetbirdy
05-09-2002, 02:00 PM
I just wanted to wish you luck and I hope your new life is http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/jester.gif~G~R~O~O~V~Y~ http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/jester.gif
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:bouncing: :bouncing: :bouncing:
~Tweety~
Tara A. Baldini
05-10-2002, 04:29 PM
It will work out even if I have to make it work.
niecsey
05-10-2002, 06:57 PM
good luck and remember you ca always visit them :wave:
Tara A. Baldini
05-11-2002, 12:24 AM
Yes I know I will be able to make time to visit them whenever I can.