slashaxlroseizzy
06-09-2003, 05:39 AM
Hi im 17 and i have lived with my grandma all of my life.. recently i got the flu and then she got it... we didnt think it was that bad but hers turned into phemonia.. she has been in the hostpial for like 5 or 6 days now and was doing better now worse and she needs a blood tranfusion and i guess is gettin one, and is very weak now. SHe is 83 and i dont know what i will do if she were to die.. she ahs been there for me and i have no one else. i need her and love her so much i dont know what to do i have been literally crying all night since i heard she is doing worse and might not make it .. sorry to those who read this and donit care but this is the worse thing tht can ever havppen to me.. she is everything i guess i just need someone to talk to thx foryour time bye.. hopefuly she is beter tomorrow :( i will have nowhere to go.. my life will be over she helped me and she was the person i could tell anything man i cant do this im cryin just typing this... goodnight ill be praying
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camden
06-09-2003, 02:37 PM
You are so lucky to have someone like that in your life! I lived with both of my parents until I was 16 and never had a close relationship with either of them.
I believe when someone dies they go to heaven and all of their family who went before them is waiting to greet them. It is strange, but now when someone I know passes away I can't help but smile. I still miss them but I know that they are happy and not alone.
Please don't give up if the worst should happen. Your grandmother would not want your life to be over. It sounds like she raised you well and would want you to make something of yourself whether she is there or not! Too often people use tragedy as an excuse for failure, but every once in awhile they use it to succeed in life. I hope you are the latter.
Your grandmother is in my prayers. I hope everything turns out to be alright.
I believe when someone dies they go to heaven and all of their family who went before them is waiting to greet them. It is strange, but now when someone I know passes away I can't help but smile. I still miss them but I know that they are happy and not alone.
Please don't give up if the worst should happen. Your grandmother would not want your life to be over. It sounds like she raised you well and would want you to make something of yourself whether she is there or not! Too often people use tragedy as an excuse for failure, but every once in awhile they use it to succeed in life. I hope you are the latter.
Your grandmother is in my prayers. I hope everything turns out to be alright.
zuzu8
06-09-2003, 03:19 PM
I agree with Camden about everything, especially the fact that your Grandma would want you to take good care of yourself.....
She obviously must adore YOU since her love and respect and caring of you made you into such a terrific person, filled with so much love,devotion and compassion. She must be proud of you.
I know this must feel like the end of the world, but there is still hope that she will recover, so try not to get too panicked yet.
One of her greatest concerns, all your life I'm sure, is if you would be okay if something happened to her.
If the worst happens, your greatest gift to her would be to continue your life well... and yes, miss her and grieve for her.. but not so much that it paralyzes you and prevents you from becoming happy, productive and loving.
That's what she would want for you.
Still, we are jumping the gun here....I do hope the new treatments kick in and all will be well again.
Just take it day by day.
Let us know what happens. Do you have any friends to talk to? Are you still in school? Maybe the school counsellor would be a good person to talk to as well. You shouldn't have to do this all alone.
Of course you have us here on these boards, so come back and let us know what's going on when you can.
zuzu xxxxxxx
She obviously must adore YOU since her love and respect and caring of you made you into such a terrific person, filled with so much love,devotion and compassion. She must be proud of you.
I know this must feel like the end of the world, but there is still hope that she will recover, so try not to get too panicked yet.
One of her greatest concerns, all your life I'm sure, is if you would be okay if something happened to her.
If the worst happens, your greatest gift to her would be to continue your life well... and yes, miss her and grieve for her.. but not so much that it paralyzes you and prevents you from becoming happy, productive and loving.
That's what she would want for you.
Still, we are jumping the gun here....I do hope the new treatments kick in and all will be well again.
Just take it day by day.
Let us know what happens. Do you have any friends to talk to? Are you still in school? Maybe the school counsellor would be a good person to talk to as well. You shouldn't have to do this all alone.
Of course you have us here on these boards, so come back and let us know what's going on when you can.
zuzu xxxxxxx
slashaxlroseizzy
06-09-2003, 09:10 PM
Thanks guys for taking your time to read my post, i have just graduated this year from high school, have a job and no car ( she took me ) been gettin rides from neighbors. Yeah i have friedns to talk to but.. dont like to talk to them about it. They all hope she gets well. I just got back from seeing her, she had a ultrasound to see if she had a cancer, a bloodclot or something else which is there.. hopefully its not cancer and they can fix it ... ill tell u guys the news tonight when i get off work and find out.. hopefullly its good news thx alot i will be praying , cya tonight.
slashaxlroseizzy
06-09-2003, 09:11 PM
Thanks guys for taking your time to read my post, i have just graduated this year from high school, have a job and no car ( she took me ) been gettin rides from neighbors. Yeah i have friedns to talk to but.. dont like to talk to them about it. They all hope she gets well. I just got back from seeing her, she had a ultrasound to see if she had a cancer, a bloodclot or something else which is there.. hopefully its not cancer and they can fix it ... ill tell u guys the news tonight when i get off work and find out.. hopefullly its good news thx alot i will be praying , cya tonight.
slashaxlroseizzy
06-09-2003, 09:13 PM
Thanks guys for taking your time to read my post, i have just graduated this year from high school, have a job and no car ( she took me ) been gettin rides from neighbors. Yeah i have friedns to talk to but.. dont like to talk to them about it. They all hope she gets well. I just got back from seeing her, she had a ultrasound to see if she had a cancer, a bloodclot or something else which is there.. hopefully its not cancer and they can fix it ... ill tell u guys the news tonight when i get off work and find out.. hopefullly its good news thx alot i will be praying , cya tonight.
Mollyrae
06-10-2003, 03:16 AM
Hi,
I just had to write a quick note to say that I am praying for your grandmother and you. I know that you can pull through this situation, whatever God has planned for both of you. Please keep us updated. I am praying for you!
Mollyrae
I just had to write a quick note to say that I am praying for your grandmother and you. I know that you can pull through this situation, whatever God has planned for both of you. Please keep us updated. I am praying for you!
Mollyrae
GlitterFairy
06-10-2003, 10:53 PM
Hang in there sweetie. Hopefully things will work out okay for her. I lost my father just this year and he was all I had and it was very hard for me and I thought the world would just end, but it didn't. I made it through okay and other things worked out for me and now I am a much stronger person. But just focus on her now and be there for here and be positive. I know you are scared but you gotta be strong for her to help her pull through. Don't give up just yet. But please do keep us informed, as we are worried about you. You have plenty of friends here who will be here for whatever you need. Take care and stay strong and I really hope she will be okay. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/heart.gif :) :) :)
GlitterFairy
06-10-2003, 11:02 PM
I hope her catscan turns out okay and I hope you are still hanging in there and being strong. Keep us updated on her condition, and how you are doing.
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tagger
06-10-2003, 11:52 PM
((((((((((slashaxlroseizzy))))))))))))) Hugs for you. You are so young to have to go through this. My grandma was a tough wise woman who taught me so many wondeful things. I'll be thinking of you and your grandma. Try to be strong for her as she's been for you all these years. She must be very worried about you right now as you are for her. Keep letting her know how much you love her. Your love may give her that extra strength to pull her through this.
I hope you can find someone to talk to who will give you strength during this time. Maybe you could ask her doctor. He will be aware of resources in your area, be it counselling or a support group. I know it might sound overwhelming to try to arrange when you're so worried about your grandma, but you need someone to talk to.
My thoughts are with you. Please keep us posted...Tagger
I hope you can find someone to talk to who will give you strength during this time. Maybe you could ask her doctor. He will be aware of resources in your area, be it counselling or a support group. I know it might sound overwhelming to try to arrange when you're so worried about your grandma, but you need someone to talk to.
My thoughts are with you. Please keep us posted...Tagger
SCAR
06-12-2003, 12:48 AM
i'll pray for you too..
It is in God's hands.
if God wants her to stay then she shall stay if God wants her to come back home then she shall come back to him.
i'll keep you in my prayers
It is in God's hands.
if God wants her to stay then she shall stay if God wants her to come back home then she shall come back to him.
i'll keep you in my prayers
slashaxlroseizzy
06-13-2003, 07:02 PM
Thanks guys for all your support, it was a huge blood clot that they had caused, had to do surgery 2 days ago and she is doing alot better now. She wont be able to do much for like 2 weeks , and she said shes coming home tomorrow. Hope that she will be ok after she arrives, thx for all your prayers too, they have helped alot and to help me get through this, ill post any new news thx alot cya.
GlitterFairy
06-14-2003, 01:41 AM
I'm so glad to hear that things weren't all that bad and to hear that she is doing much better. Sounds like she will be just fine. Now they know what is wrong and are getting it fixed, so things are moving on the upscale for you and I'm glad to hear it. You just help her during her recovery time, which I'm sure you will. Keep us updated....