Rancid_Punk
08-24-2003, 06:24 PM
I am a punk in my school. And then I met this guy and hes a football player. He hangs out with the cheerleaders and all the popular crowd who dont really like me. We talk and have a good time but thats only when hes not with his friends. But the good thing is that he dosent totally ignore me in school he still says hi. how can i cange this so he doesnt feel like he cant talk to me when hes around his friends? Do I have to change?
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No one wins a war by
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[This message has been edited by Rancid_Punk (edited 08-24-2003).]
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No one wins a war by
dying for their country
but by making the other
SOB's die for theirs!
[This message has been edited by Rancid_Punk (edited 08-24-2003).]
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gesine
08-24-2003, 06:59 PM
Just be yourself.
upshutter17
08-24-2003, 07:07 PM
I like your name by the way...Rancid is great. I agree with the last post....be yourself. I have seen sometimes...the popular guy doesn't want a popular girl. Sometimes they really don't...sometimes they do. There's nothing better than just being yourself.
Hopeful For You,
Upshutter
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~I am but one small instrument~
~Smile, you live longer~
Paradigm shift to proactivity saves lives.
A smile will save this world, some of us just don't know that yet.
Hopeful For You,
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~I am but one small instrument~
~Smile, you live longer~
Paradigm shift to proactivity saves lives.
A smile will save this world, some of us just don't know that yet.
CaliforniaBOy5
08-25-2003, 03:15 AM
oh come on people, "just be yourself" thats the corniest thing and it doesnt help her much. I've had to change something about myself for a girl, i think most people have. Its called adjusting, im not saying to change everything about yourself or anything drastic but im my mind something needs to be done. . .
Rancid_Punk
08-25-2003, 04:26 AM
ok californiaboy5. What do you think should happen? I dont want to change much and I want to keep my friends too. But i really like this guy. So share with me.
HoosierBj
08-25-2003, 10:13 AM
You don't mention what grade you are in, but I would also suggest that you don't be anybody but who you are. The odds are that you won't even SEE anyone you went to high school with after you've been graduated for a while. All his friends may leave town for college while he stays local - with a good friend like you!
I had a friend who become a party girl for her party boyfriend, a nudist for her nudist husband, a biker babe for her boyfrriend after her divorce, and a college student for her 2nd husband. I didn't really know who the hell she was by that time.
It's fine if you are the type of person who WANTS to try all these things - but not if you are being a chameleon in order to be who you think a guy wants you to be.
I had a friend who become a party girl for her party boyfriend, a nudist for her nudist husband, a biker babe for her boyfrriend after her divorce, and a college student for her 2nd husband. I didn't really know who the hell she was by that time.
It's fine if you are the type of person who WANTS to try all these things - but not if you are being a chameleon in order to be who you think a guy wants you to be.
Rancid_Punk
08-25-2003, 06:42 PM
You do have a very good point. i am a Junior 16.
dude4
08-26-2003, 07:37 PM
the best thing i can say about this situation is to just try to get along with his friends, if they won't give you a chance then make them. I've never gotten along with the popular kids in junior high but now i find myself hanging out with some of them (i'm a senior) just find a commmon bond between you and things will start to clear with his friends and they will see what kid of person you really are..i know this is easier said than done, but thats my input :)
Rancid_Punk
08-27-2003, 12:00 AM
Hey thanks
CaliforniaBOy5
08-27-2003, 12:39 AM
Well, his friends may reject you, they may welcome you, depending on how they are. Im one of the more "popular" guys and im a prep and a jock, more on the prep side in the clothing but i've gone out with a girl that was a punk, not a a hardcore punk but as in clothing and music. She was, well is really cute and i really liked her. Didnt matter that i listened to different music, we dressed differently, it made it kind of fun. Fighting on what to put on in the car as for music, when we would go to the mall and i would make her go to Robinsons May, Nordstrom, and Macy's and she'd make me go to her stores. Its possible, im an example. :)