nicki1982
09-27-2003, 02:54 PM
i was diagnosed with genital warts quite awhile ago and now i that i am back dating again my bf who i just started dating a week ago wants us to wait 6 months to have sex again when we feel it is safe. we want to try for a baby but with us not having sex we can't anyone have advice. i am frustrated with my problem and i wish it would go away. i have been to the doctor several times to get warts burnt off but they just keep coming back!
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Belle45
09-28-2003, 01:41 AM
Originally posted by nicki1982:
i was diagnosed with genital warts quite awhile ago and now i that i am back dating again my bf who i just started dating a week ago wants us to wait 6 months to have sex again when we feel it is safe. we want to try for a baby but with us not having sex we can't anyone have advice.
Do you mind if I ask how old are the both of you?
Why would you both be wanting a baby after only being back together again one week?
i was diagnosed with genital warts quite awhile ago and now i that i am back dating again my bf who i just started dating a week ago wants us to wait 6 months to have sex again when we feel it is safe. we want to try for a baby but with us not having sex we can't anyone have advice.
Do you mind if I ask how old are the both of you?
Why would you both be wanting a baby after only being back together again one week?
Audrey-B
09-28-2003, 02:54 AM
Did i read your post wrong? You are back with your b/f who you dated for one week? and now you want to try for a baby?
Want 2 B Well
09-28-2003, 12:02 PM
This is a quote from a site about genital warts.
"Infants born to women with genital warts develop warts in their throats (laryngeal papillomatosis). Although uncommon, it is a potentially life-threatening condition for the child, requiring frequent laser surgery to prevent obstruction of the breathing passages. Research on the use of interferon therapy in combination with laser surgery indicates that this drug may show promise in slowing the course of the disease."
That is a big risk to take when considering having a child. You should be under an OBGYN's care prior to getting pregnant.
Also, another quote....
"Genital warts are very contagious and are spread during oral, genital, or anal sex with an infected partner. About two-thirds of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will develop warts, usually within three months of contact."
So whether you wait or not you may give it to your partner, anyway. You are contagious forever....The lack of presence of the warts does not mean you are 100% SAFE! Sometimes the warts are just "invisible" or inside of you & you can't see them. This is a virus & it is transmitted like AIDS.
I am sorry you have this. When you find the right person I am sure that he will be loving and supportive to your condition. {{{HUGS}}}
"Infants born to women with genital warts develop warts in their throats (laryngeal papillomatosis). Although uncommon, it is a potentially life-threatening condition for the child, requiring frequent laser surgery to prevent obstruction of the breathing passages. Research on the use of interferon therapy in combination with laser surgery indicates that this drug may show promise in slowing the course of the disease."
That is a big risk to take when considering having a child. You should be under an OBGYN's care prior to getting pregnant.
Also, another quote....
"Genital warts are very contagious and are spread during oral, genital, or anal sex with an infected partner. About two-thirds of people who have sexual contact with a partner with genital warts will develop warts, usually within three months of contact."
So whether you wait or not you may give it to your partner, anyway. You are contagious forever....The lack of presence of the warts does not mean you are 100% SAFE! Sometimes the warts are just "invisible" or inside of you & you can't see them. This is a virus & it is transmitted like AIDS.
I am sorry you have this. When you find the right person I am sure that he will be loving and supportive to your condition. {{{HUGS}}}
nicki1982
09-28-2003, 01:46 PM
well, my bf and i have known each for a long time and we both want kids badly. he is 27 and i am 21 and we both feel we are ready to have kids
Want 2 B Well
09-28-2003, 02:18 PM
Then please get yourself to an OBGYN and do it under medical supervision.
normorcrazy
09-28-2003, 03:27 PM
I understand how it feels to want kids, but don't you think marriage should be the first step to planning a family? Knowing each other for along time and being committed are two different things.
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nicki1982
09-29-2003, 11:58 AM
WHAT DO THE LETTERS OBGYN STAND FOR PLEASE? MY BF AND I WANT KIDS BEFORE WE WANT MARRIAGE
Monday1954
09-29-2003, 12:41 PM
Nickie, Ob/Gyn stands for Obstetrician and Gynocologist.
Can I ask why you and your boyfriend want to have children before you are married?
Can I ask why you and your boyfriend want to have children before you are married?
nicki1982
09-29-2003, 12:43 PM
my bf and i want kids before marriage cause we feel comfortable doing things that way. we feel we are ready for kids before we are for marriage.
Want 2 B Well
09-29-2003, 01:01 PM
Originally posted by nicki1982:
WHAT DO THE LETTERS OBGYN STAND FOR PLEASE? MY BF AND I WANT KIDS BEFORE WE WANT MARRIAGE
Nicki, I am not questioning the order you are doing it in. I am concerned for the health and welfare of you and your "baby to be".
To put it simply when you have genital warts this puts you in a high risk pregnancy category. In order to ensure that your baby will not be damaged for LIFE it is in you & your babies interest to get pregnant under a doctors care. Women who are pregnant go to Obstetrician and Gynocologist.
Please seek one out and talk to them BEFORE getting pregnant. They will help you and arm you with knowledge that you cannot get from a message board.
Think of it as preparing yourself for a committment that will last you forever.
Healthy child or take a risk w/o medical supervision?
That is all I am saying.
Just go see a OB (obstetrician-doc who delivers babies) and see what they say.
WHAT DO THE LETTERS OBGYN STAND FOR PLEASE? MY BF AND I WANT KIDS BEFORE WE WANT MARRIAGE
Nicki, I am not questioning the order you are doing it in. I am concerned for the health and welfare of you and your "baby to be".
To put it simply when you have genital warts this puts you in a high risk pregnancy category. In order to ensure that your baby will not be damaged for LIFE it is in you & your babies interest to get pregnant under a doctors care. Women who are pregnant go to Obstetrician and Gynocologist.
Please seek one out and talk to them BEFORE getting pregnant. They will help you and arm you with knowledge that you cannot get from a message board.
Think of it as preparing yourself for a committment that will last you forever.
Healthy child or take a risk w/o medical supervision?
That is all I am saying.
Just go see a OB (obstetrician-doc who delivers babies) and see what they say.
nicki1982
09-29-2003, 01:13 PM
i agree with you on that one. this will be my first pregnancy,i am so scared that i will do something wrong.
SoccerMom
09-29-2003, 01:50 PM
I will say something that may make you mad, but you need to hear it.
Wait until after marriage to start your family!
Make sure that the man you choose to have children with will be committed to the both of you.
Saying you want kids and actually doing it are two different things. Are you both ready for the sacrifices that a child takes. Especially in the condition you are in. This could cause life threatening consequences for both you two and the baby.
Ask this question, are you ready to care for a disabled or seriously ill child. Are you ready to stay home and care for that child and not go out and run around like you want to?
Do you truely trust this man to care for you and a disabled child or are you just dreaming that he is the one?
Go and speak with an OBGYN prior to having any kind of sex at this time in your life.
Wait until after marriage to start your family!
Make sure that the man you choose to have children with will be committed to the both of you.
Saying you want kids and actually doing it are two different things. Are you both ready for the sacrifices that a child takes. Especially in the condition you are in. This could cause life threatening consequences for both you two and the baby.
Ask this question, are you ready to care for a disabled or seriously ill child. Are you ready to stay home and care for that child and not go out and run around like you want to?
Do you truely trust this man to care for you and a disabled child or are you just dreaming that he is the one?
Go and speak with an OBGYN prior to having any kind of sex at this time in your life.
nicki1982
09-29-2003, 02:05 PM
my bf and i have talked about having a baby and we are sure that this is what we want so badly