hey there.
i was just wondering something and wanted to get feedback. I recently met a girl who means the world to me and i want to ask some questions. The last time i "messed around" with a girl was over 2 months ago. i Did not have un-protected intercourse, it was just oral. since then i have had a diagnosed sinus infection, and a flare up of pain on the sides of my tounge which was attributed to a flouride mouth rinse. I dont, and havent had any bumps, spots, or anything painful in my mouth or anything. should i be concerned. The girl i was with was tested in the summer, and was having protected sex with her bf at the time with no oral........feedback??

hey there.
i was just wondering something and wanted to get feedback. I recently met a girl who means the world to me and i want to ask some questions. The last time i "messed around" with a girl was over 2 months ago. i Did not have un-protected intercourse, it was just oral. since then i have had a diagnosed sinus infection, and a flare up of pain on the sides of my tounge which was attributed to a flouride mouth rinse. I dont, and havent had any bumps, spots, or anything painful in my mouth or anything. should i be concerned. The girl i was with was tested in the summer, and was having protected sex with her bf at the time with no oral........feedback??

your risk of HIV is very low with oral sex. i don't think you should be concerned, but if you are serious about this girl i think you both should be tested before you take that next step. I am sure you are both fine, so don't read between the lines here. but you will both feel wonderful going into a loving relatioship squeaky clean. trust me, i waited a year in a half and a baby later to be tested. I found out after my ex and i broke up how unfaithful he was to me. so i was scared to death that i could have HIV and not have known about it infected my son and husband! the results were negative, so now we can all put that in the past. good luck to you, be safe. :angel: