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NeverDoItAgain
12-14-2003, 07:46 AM
This is really mad!! there are now red growths coming out from my body... what the heck is that? muscle aching all over, sometimes, the hands, sometimes the legs.. why did God choose HIV symptons to be so common? and Why should there ever have HIV in the first place.. I have done a wrong thing only that one time and it was protected sex!!.!!! Now, I have lost my functionality.. in life, i can't think any more, every second, i worry about myself getting HIV, when i look at my parents, i felt so guilty.. so exactly, can anyone tell me the exact symptons of HIV? I don't want to read up on other websites anymore, do all the symptons come together or?Please enlighten me... I am almost going to assume myself of having the Virus!! though my last exposure is 1 mth ago.and i just got tested negative.

stress
12-14-2003, 10:29 AM
Hi.


A few things to bare in mind...



If you are consumed by worry over possibly having a disease, your mind can definitely create some very convincing symptoms. Emotional stress can cause MANY conditions. You will also find marks and imperfections in your body that were always there but you never noticed until you closely inspected yourself, I know I did. You just assume it's disease related because you never noticed it before, but the only reason you're noticing it now is because your looking for something strange, anything.



You said you used a condom, so your risk is low. It would certainly surprise everyone if you managed to get HIV having protected sex. cases like this are very uncommon. You also admitted you feel guilty, a lot of people have a hard time believing they had casual sex and got away with it, their minds just wont let them. They expect punishment.



Most people will develop detectable antibodies by 30 days after infection with HIV. The fact you tested negative now is very promising. but you should also get tested at 3 months for a more official result. I know the guilt and fear will make this hard, but try not to worry. From what you said, you have nothing to worry about.

NeverDoItAgain
12-15-2003, 07:20 AM
Hi.


A few things to bare in mind...



If you are consumed by worry over possibly having a disease, your mind can definitely create some very convincing symptoms. Emotional stress can cause MANY conditions. You will also find marks and imperfections in your body that were always there but you never noticed until you closely inspected yourself, I know I did. You just assume it's disease related because you never noticed it before, but the only reason you're noticing it now is because your looking for something strange, anything.



You said you used a condom, so your risk is low. It would certainly surprise everyone if you managed to get HIV having protected sex. cases like this are very uncommon. You also admitted you feel guilty, a lot of people have a hard time believing they had casual sex and got away with it, their minds just wont let them. They expect punishment.



Most people will develop detectable antibodies by 30 days after infection with HIV. The fact you tested negative now is very promising. but you should also get tested at 3 months for a more official result. I know the guilt and fear will make this hard, but try not to worry. From what you said, you have nothing to worry about.


Hey stress, you may be right, and i guess you might have gone through a period of stress like that too, am i right? I too, know that nothing can be done to reverse time, i think i have looked for love in the wrong way.. i am glad that you respond to my message out here.. and I am really greatful to hear such kind words of consolation and appreciation of my situation( i am not saying about the usual AOS) thanks for appreciating me. but i really dont understand why am i getting all the unusual joint pains and muscle aches.. i thought there were signs of infection going on somewhere in the body.. and they have lasted for i think 3 weeks.!! and they come and go.. everytime, i wanted to forget about this thing and move on with my life... they will come and haunt me... worse of all, i couldn't find a frd who would listen to me, most of them just think that i am overreacting.. the only place i can find my soul relaxing and really saying out all i want is down here.. because you guys are always here to help others who are in need. Thank you .. GUYS!

 
 
 




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