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mamaw234
04-01-2001, 01:20 AM
I was wondering if someone could offer some suggestions on how to get my Grandma to sleep at night. I keep her on Friday night so my Uncle, her primary caregiver, can take a break. She is in advanced stage of alzhemimers and she is keeping me up all night by shouting Help Me, Some body help me and there is nothing wrong with her and she always thinks she has to go use the bathroom. If anyone has been through this with someone I was wondering how I can get her to sleep at night. I do not have control over her during the day in which I am to keep her because she comes to stay with me at about 5:00pm and goes home the next day. Also does anyone know how to handle the problem of her thinking she has to go to the bathroom every 20 minutes.

Thanks for any Help!
Sharon

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Alee
05-17-2001, 03:49 PM
I took care of my grandmother with Alzheimer's. First at home, and then when it was too much she was in the nursing home, but we brought her home for weekends - as long as she was able. I am no expert, but dealt with it from start to finish - and can offer my side of it. At the advanced stages, there is nothing you can do to get her to sleep. They sleep less and less as it goes. And the repetitive behavior is common too. My grandmother went through stages of her compulsion from rocking, to washing her hands about every 3 minutes, to calling and hanging up, to repetitive speech, etc. Each phase lasted a few months and then a new compulsive behavior would begin. It can be extremely aggravating, and you can't stop them from doing it. You can't rationalize with them. My grandmother would wash her hands so much that they were raw from the hot water, scrub & soap every 3 minutes. I wish I had a "cure" all, but as far as I experienced, it's part of the disease. As aggravating as it might be at times - they can't help it either. I am here if you ever want to talk about any part of it. I figure it's a tribute to my grandmother if I can help others deal with it. No one can understand it unless you've been there and done that.

flydurango
05-18-2001, 10:46 AM
hello i am a nurse and also a caregiver to my grandfather who has 3rd stage alzhiemers(right where you are at)get a physician to prescribe you some ambian for sleep, aricept for helping to slow the alzhiemers,haldol;a seditive to calm her.talk in a calm vioce dont change enviroments,it confuses more and treat her like a 3 year old.....this is to make your life easy....she doesnt know herself or anything that happens at this stage so all you are to do is provide comfort measures....tlc





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