I took ya'lls advice about telling my friend who's bulimic's relatives and it all blew up in my face! I told her cousin, but told her not to tell anyoen, adn she did! So now my bulimic friend hates me and now I hate her cousin! What do I do now?

Honestly it is better that she hates you for a time than see her do more damage to herself. In time when she chooses to recover she will understand why you did what you did. And you have no right to be mad at her cousin. Her cousin did the same thing you did. She told someone so her cousin could get some help. In the end it will all work out for the best.

Just let ther be mad at you right now, she will understand later. you did it for the best and when she recovers she will thank you for it in the end, and you should not be mad at the cousin cause now your friend can get the help she needs. Just keep your head up and everything will work out in the end. Try to let her know that you are there to support her.

thanks guys! :) I'm not mad at her cousin anymore..... But I just found out that my friend who was "bulimic" was lying to me just to get attention.....:( Now I'm kind of upset... But at least she's ok..... right?