Well, chiropractikers come in handy. My daughters chiro offered to check me (for free never mind :) !!!) for tender points and found that "according to the diagnosis rules" I got it. He also thinks that even though it's a positive diagnosis he still thinks I got Myofascial pain syndrome and maybe some spine problems, either instead (because I sleep through the night) of fibro or on top of it.
However-this means I do not have to wait till June with my Rheumatologist's appointment to find out what's going on!

Now that i am done painting the kids bedrooms the most recent flare is dying down. And with the knowledge that i am not imagining things after all, I feel quite cheered up!

Sabine