Recently, I have recently escaped from an affair with a woman who seems to be nothing less than a sociopath. Now being outside of the relationship, and speaking honestly with my wife about the issue, I can see all the signs that would indicate a sociopath. Manipulation of all members of my family (from being my mistress to my wife's best friend, to being our children's godmother). Her constant role of victim in all aspects of her life (having issues as a child, disowned by family, relationship with men...turns out I was not the first married man, etc.). Her delusions of greatness (at 35 and having a paralegal degree she was bound to be a judge within two years). Her sexual activities, she maintains "***** buddies" for sex without emotional attachment, etc. In fact when I read about sociopaths she seems meet every catagory.

Now while I admit I am guilty of my acts, in fact the only innocents in this are my family. My concern is does she, as a sociopath, poise a continued danger to my family? Some things around the house seem to have been distrubed since the break-up. My wife noticed the appearance of some play-doe flowers like she used to make, after my wife had cleaned the room of all items associated with the woman. She also returned home to a lingering smell of the woman's cigarettes. Now the family dog does now the woman and would not feel her a threat to the home, so she could sneak in without trouble.

How dangerous should we consider this woman?