I am going for my 6 weeks check up with my neurosurgeon from having a tumor removed and I am doing fine. ( This is tomoorrow) I have 3 kinds an a husband. I am wondering what he will say when it comes to working. I have a wonderful but very hign stress job. Everyone was very supportive nad had fund raisers fpor me as well. I judt dont know if I can go back to work. With three kids and all I am just not sure how I did it before. My husband is very quiet when I talk about this because he would have to work three jobs to make the money that I make. and just tells me you can do it, but I dont think I can, I get so tired. I work in a detention center. and we are givwn training so if someone should attack us or anything, then we can deal with it. But I am scared to death of being hit in the head. I have heard that you are not supposed to play contact sports for a year after this. Will he take into account of this. Could I be out on FMLA for up to a year. I have 19 month old twins, and a six year old. Does anyone have any insight to this.