my nose tingled while in bed and i thought i heard a pussing sound and after my nose was oily is that normal i never felt that before in my life ?.

i have been being worried about hiv and stuff is that in any way related

Yep. You have AIDS. Nah,,,just kidding. Are you STILL being a freak about this???? YOUR'E FINE, QUIT WHINNING!
I hate to break the awful news,,,,,,
YOU HAVE OILY SKIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WASH YOUR FACE!!!!!!!!!!!

Here's another thought: You may have Obsession Compulsive Disorder. (OCD) There is a OCD thread on this healthboard. You might want to post there and see if any of those folks can help you get over your HIV "Phobia".