nasor
06-26-2004, 04:34 AM
Maybe it's just me, but I really can't stand most dermatologists. They seem to have the same sort of obnoxious paternalistic attitude that used to pervade medicine decades ago, but fortunately seems to have become unacceptable in most fields of medicine.
Have I just had really bad luck with dermos? I get alone fine with all the other doctors I encounter. Anyone else?
Have I just had really bad luck with dermos? I get alone fine with all the other doctors I encounter. Anyone else?
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Flutegirl7
06-28-2004, 03:37 AM
Yeah, I've had trouble with them too. I can't get them to listen to me. My so-called "eczema" is probably dermatitis herpetiformis, which is the skin form of celiac disease (which my mom has, my grandfather had, it's heredity...) The derms just take a quick glance and say "eczema" without hearing my background or anything. And heaven forbid I should want to find out what's triggering my eczema. ARGH!
joquiero
06-28-2004, 11:29 AM
Mine is nice but she just wants to get me out of the office. When I ask her what could be triggering it she just blows it off as hormonal - and says that food/nothing else could be causing it. She gives me no advice about diet/exercise/nutrients etc she just wants to give me my monthly prescription and send me on my way.
Though I've found doctors in general to be like this too. For years I suffered really bad pains in my face, neck, and back and my doctor just kept telling me either 'you're stressed' or 'its all in your mind'. Turns out that I had a tooth infection that the dental x-rays weren't detecting and which caused an infection of the ear and caused swelling in the jaw/facial/neck muscles. Had they spent any time listening they may have figured it out and I wouldn't have had to spend 3 years of my life in constant pain.
Doctors are most DEFINATELY the WORST listeners.
Though I've found doctors in general to be like this too. For years I suffered really bad pains in my face, neck, and back and my doctor just kept telling me either 'you're stressed' or 'its all in your mind'. Turns out that I had a tooth infection that the dental x-rays weren't detecting and which caused an infection of the ear and caused swelling in the jaw/facial/neck muscles. Had they spent any time listening they may have figured it out and I wouldn't have had to spend 3 years of my life in constant pain.
Doctors are most DEFINATELY the WORST listeners.
Dawnrise
07-01-2004, 04:26 AM
I've been quite lucky. Although I haven't had to see my dermo for quite some time (knock on wood) he's always been nice and willing to answer any questions for as long as it takes. I wish everyone could have a dermo like mine.
MrsLee
07-02-2004, 09:52 AM
My dermo is actually pretty good--he suggested skin testing to figure out the cause of my eczema. But he is one of the best known in town, and he is also the most weel-known cosmetic surgeon around here. The only problem with that is I don't get to talk to him much because he is so busy--I ususally have to talk to his assistants.
In my experience I have found most doctors are terrible listeners. They really do just want to give you a prescription and send you on your way. I am constantly switching doctors, and I hope someday I find one I like. I have learned a lot more by doing research on the internet and from reading posts on this website.
In my experience I have found most doctors are terrible listeners. They really do just want to give you a prescription and send you on your way. I am constantly switching doctors, and I hope someday I find one I like. I have learned a lot more by doing research on the internet and from reading posts on this website.
cth
07-07-2004, 09:03 PM
No, Mine is a young woman. She is very consciensciousundefined cth
cth
07-07-2004, 09:03 PM
No, Mine is a young woman. She is very conscienscious. cth
euglena
07-10-2004, 04:26 PM
It is very unfortunate that I observe in every section of this healthboard at least one threat that talks about the apathy in specialists.
Physicians, in my opinion, are a supporting pillar of society, as they have been trained to ensure a high quality of life in the public, which they serve.
It is very regretful to observe such essential members of society to be abrupt, most likely in an attempt to see as many patients as possible (46 per day is the maximum, according to the Medical Service Plan) for a maximum income. Such selfish reasons should be condemned, and must be condemned.
I recommend patients who have had negative experiences to inform the media, anonymously, such that the concerns of the public are heard.
Also, sending a letter to the College of Physicians and Surgeons is also an option. They are the governing council of all physicians around the world.
Physicians, in my opinion, are a supporting pillar of society, as they have been trained to ensure a high quality of life in the public, which they serve.
It is very regretful to observe such essential members of society to be abrupt, most likely in an attempt to see as many patients as possible (46 per day is the maximum, according to the Medical Service Plan) for a maximum income. Such selfish reasons should be condemned, and must be condemned.
I recommend patients who have had negative experiences to inform the media, anonymously, such that the concerns of the public are heard.
Also, sending a letter to the College of Physicians and Surgeons is also an option. They are the governing council of all physicians around the world.
CarinErin
07-13-2004, 02:48 PM
I understand that doctors are busy & stuff, my mom is an Opthalmic Assistant & I've seen her running around the office before.
The thing I hate most about docs is when they say "Oh that doesn't hurt!" Don't you DARE tell me what hurts & what doesn't hurt! I'll be the judge of that! Once I was getting an X-Ray for my arm (which turned out to be broken) & the tech told me to hold it a certain way. After many attempts, I couldn't get it into that position. He looked at me like I was stupid & showed me with his arm how to hold it again. I showed him with the other arm (the unbroken one) what he wanted me to do & explained to him (in a snappy tone, i admit :rolleyes: ) that I COULD NOT hold it that way & that he needed to find another way LoL. I just wish sometimes they'd slow down a bit & pay attention to our individual needs. Taking the time to do that may actually make things go faster, rather than slowing things down.
The thing I hate most about docs is when they say "Oh that doesn't hurt!" Don't you DARE tell me what hurts & what doesn't hurt! I'll be the judge of that! Once I was getting an X-Ray for my arm (which turned out to be broken) & the tech told me to hold it a certain way. After many attempts, I couldn't get it into that position. He looked at me like I was stupid & showed me with his arm how to hold it again. I showed him with the other arm (the unbroken one) what he wanted me to do & explained to him (in a snappy tone, i admit :rolleyes: ) that I COULD NOT hold it that way & that he needed to find another way LoL. I just wish sometimes they'd slow down a bit & pay attention to our individual needs. Taking the time to do that may actually make things go faster, rather than slowing things down.