Well... Here is a good one :eek:

This was a very "hectic" weekend for my family, as my cousin was getting married, my daughters were dancing at the reception, and I was in the wedding party!

The weekend went by GREAT... Everything just peachy... But it took its toll on my girlfriend, leaving her with very limited time to get dressed (as she was busy getting the girls ready)... So that stressed her out a bit... She setup the whole dance, figured out all the moves and stuff, plus the outfits...

Then at the reception after things have "simmered"... dinner, speaches, etc etc etc etc... Everyone was TIRED... :yawn:

Well... My girlfriend told me TODAY that I was neglectful of her... so she really started "VENTING" at how she was lonely, she was so busy, how I was never around and spent very little time with her, etc etc etc...

Either way, she "vented" heavily to be for about 45minutes...

By the end of the whole session, she has concluded that I want some type of relationship where I do my thing and the girl does hers... Which is not the case at all!

I must have been "caught up" in the partying & mingling with friends, family and such... So she seems to have taken real offence...

I apologized all kinds, because I didn't know she felt that way...

BUT NOW, I feel like a pile of dung... I so wish I could take back the weekend...

I am a wreck now... My "esteem" as a "good man" starts to go down... Now I feel as if I am some horrible boyfriend who does not know how to take care of his woman :(

She yells saying she is venting and that is all, but I hurt!

I dunno :confused:

*hugs* maybe you can take her out this weekend as a make-up for the past weekend? i wish you didnt feel so down, dont beat yourself too much over this... whats happened happened, now you just have to work on the present... i wish of you only the best *hugs*

*hugs* maybe you can take her out this weekend as a make-up for the past weekend? i wish you didnt feel so down, dont beat yourself too much over this... whats happened happened, now you just have to work on the present... i wish of you only the best *hugs*

Thanks Green...

I am TRYING... But nothing has worked yet...

I will just have to be her Jester for a while until I make up for my wrong doing :jester:

did she at any time before or during the wedding & celebrations indicate directly to you that she needed help -- as in, call you and say "I need a little help from you for a few minutes"? Because, if you were having fun and had no idea that she needed anything . . . :nono: . . . both my husband and I agree to not be wet rags and spoil each other's fun as long as we take turns with the child care. If she did ask for help, though, then clearly she needed it and then all you can do is apologize and wait.

did she at any time before or during the wedding & celebrations indicate directly to you that she needed help -- as in, call you and say "I need a little help from you for a few minutes"? Because, if you were having fun and had no idea that she needed anything . . . :nono: . . . both my husband and I agree to not be wet rags and spoil each other's fun as long as we take turns with the child care. If she did ask for help, though, then clearly she needed it and then all you can do is apologize and wait.

She did not ask for help... She was just VENTING as she said...

But I ended up feeling hurt..

The subject has not been revisted yet, I am scared for when it does :eek: