Sheresh
07-06-2004, 07:36 PM
I've been having problems keepin an erection while having sex with my G/F while wearing a condom, so earlier today we tried it without a condom, and it was MUCH MUCH MUCH better. Now I admit it was quite stupid not wearing a condom, and I know the pull out method isn't guarnteed, BUT, she has PCOS, and I was wondering if it was at all possible for her to get pregnant, and if so what would the % be?
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Magnetic
07-06-2004, 08:49 PM
I would not let a diagnosis of PCOS prevent me from using protection. Her doctor would be the best one to determine her chances of getting pregnant. If she ovulates, she can get pregnant, though the risks of miscarriage are high. (I hope you would not want to put her through that.)
Not being able to orgasm due to condoms is generally psychological. I discourage you from avoiding protection and would instead urge you to stop masturbating and learn how to ejaculate with condoms. You admit to what you are doing as being stupid, so I would advise you to start doing the wise thing.
Not being able to orgasm due to condoms is generally psychological. I discourage you from avoiding protection and would instead urge you to stop masturbating and learn how to ejaculate with condoms. You admit to what you are doing as being stupid, so I would advise you to start doing the wise thing.
Blastoff9600
07-06-2004, 10:01 PM
Just because she has PCOS doesnt mean she cant get pregnant. Yes PCOS can effect fertility but it isnt so with all women. Also the younger the woman is with PCOS the less chances of it effecting her fertility. Though it has been mentioned she is at a higher risk of miscarriage and really you dont want her going through that emotional roller coaster.
You have to just learn to accept the condoms and learn how to get comfortable with them. A good way to go is have her help put them on to try to help things along.
You have to just learn to accept the condoms and learn how to get comfortable with them. A good way to go is have her help put them on to try to help things along.
Sheresh
07-07-2004, 01:08 AM
Yea, as I said we tried it once, and while we both enjoyed it much more then with condoms, after a long talk we both decided that it would be better not to risk anything and just play it safe. Only problem, is 1.) I dont masturbate much at all and 2.) sex with a condom still isnt very enjoyable.
James44_20
07-07-2004, 10:41 AM
Get her on the pill, then you don't really need a condom so long as there is no risk of any STD's
Sheresh
07-07-2004, 11:21 AM
In order for the pill to work she has to be able to have her period, and she cant get hers.
Blastoff9600
07-07-2004, 02:16 PM
Actually Sheresh the pill is used with PCOS girls/women to help control the cysts that can occur with PCOS. She might want to change doctors so she can get proper care for for PCOS. Granted PCOS cant be gotten rid of but it she can be on the pill to control things. She doesnt have to have a period to be on it. The reason most want a period to come before the pill is started is so they know that sheisnt pregnant and can start the pill either during or right after her period. But with PCOS it can be iffy on when a period will come so some doctors who are knowledgable about PCOS will have the girl/woman start the pill after a pregnancy test is done.
Also just because a girl/woman is on the pill doesnt mean they are protected. BC pills just like any other BC can fail,so if by chance she does go on the pill make sure to continue to use condoms just to be on the safe side. You two need to sit down and talk about this. Discuss your options and what you both want to do if she does wind up pregnant from this. IF she doesnt then you can remember the conversation and hence have a plan for the what ifs that might occur.
Also just because a girl/woman is on the pill doesnt mean they are protected. BC pills just like any other BC can fail,so if by chance she does go on the pill make sure to continue to use condoms just to be on the safe side. You two need to sit down and talk about this. Discuss your options and what you both want to do if she does wind up pregnant from this. IF she doesnt then you can remember the conversation and hence have a plan for the what ifs that might occur.