I have this continuing problem I can't seem to get rid of.

My ear drums seems to be recessed or something. My hearing doesn't go out, it just dims a noticable amount. If I hold my nose(and recently I have to also press on my lower right eyelid to prevent liquid or air from comming out), and blow, my drums will pop. They can be heard by my wife and it is sometimes a little painful. Anyhow when I do this I can hear again.

The problem is, with in a minute they are back again.

I have tried decongestion meds, allergy meds, ear wax removal, even ear cones with no results.

What can I do to keep my ear drums where they belong.

Thank you,