confused788
08-17-2004, 02:54 PM
yesterday i had sex (with a condom nda he didn't ejaculate at all). a few hours after sex i had this warm,white/clear,sometimes stcky or wet discharge. then when i looked to the side...(not on the lips or anything) i see my skin. looks normal..untill i looked lcoser and saw like a wrinkled bump. its itcky now and red (maybe because i was scared and poked at it). my boyfriend and i are both virgins untill each other. so i can't possibly get an std right?! but what does the discharge menan and that weird skin itchy bump?!?!?! am i rpegnant?!??! whats wrong wiht me!!!
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JLB284
08-17-2004, 04:23 PM
Skin lesions from stds don't show up a few hours after sex, and you don't get pregnancy symptoms right after you have sex either. The discharge was probably your own fluids from being aroused. I don't know what the bump is, a pimple? An irritation? Two virgins who have sex with a condom and no ejaculate isn't going to get you pregnant or with an STD. You sound too young to be having sex if you don't even know what is going on.
devastated
08-17-2004, 05:45 PM
Skin lesions from stds don't show up a few hours after sex, and you don't get pregnancy symptoms right after you have sex either. The discharge was probably your own fluids from being aroused. I don't know what the bump is, a pimple? An irritation? Two virgins who have sex with a condom and no ejaculate isn't going to get you pregnant or with an STD. You sound too young to be having sex if you don't even know what is going on.
while it is true that neither skin lesions nor pregnancy symptoms would show that soon after sex, it is possible to get pregnant without ejaculation. That is because when a man is aroused, he may leak what is known as pre-ejaculate, and it is possible for sperm to be present in the pre-ejaculate. However, to the original poster, I would not worry about this since you two used a condom.
Also, while it is true that if neither partner has an STD, it would be impossible for one to just appear, it is possible for a virgin to have an STD. Some STD's such as herpes and HPV (warts) can be spread just by genital skin to skin contact, no actual penetration is needed. Also, oral herpes (coldsores) is very common, and it is estimated that 80% of the population is infected orall by the time they reach 14 years of age (but most people don't even know they have it, because the majority of people never get symptoms). Oral herpes is not considered an STD, and it is usually contracted via non-sexual means, such as an infected relative kissing a child, etc. HOWEVER, it can be passed to the genitals by an infected person performing oral sex on their partner, thus resulting in a person contracting an STD from someone who does NOT actually have an STD.
All that being said, to the original poster, the discharge may have been just from your arousal, and condoms can quite often cause irritation...especially if they dry out during sex.
while it is true that neither skin lesions nor pregnancy symptoms would show that soon after sex, it is possible to get pregnant without ejaculation. That is because when a man is aroused, he may leak what is known as pre-ejaculate, and it is possible for sperm to be present in the pre-ejaculate. However, to the original poster, I would not worry about this since you two used a condom.
Also, while it is true that if neither partner has an STD, it would be impossible for one to just appear, it is possible for a virgin to have an STD. Some STD's such as herpes and HPV (warts) can be spread just by genital skin to skin contact, no actual penetration is needed. Also, oral herpes (coldsores) is very common, and it is estimated that 80% of the population is infected orall by the time they reach 14 years of age (but most people don't even know they have it, because the majority of people never get symptoms). Oral herpes is not considered an STD, and it is usually contracted via non-sexual means, such as an infected relative kissing a child, etc. HOWEVER, it can be passed to the genitals by an infected person performing oral sex on their partner, thus resulting in a person contracting an STD from someone who does NOT actually have an STD.
All that being said, to the original poster, the discharge may have been just from your arousal, and condoms can quite often cause irritation...especially if they dry out during sex.
Mr.G
08-17-2004, 06:13 PM
IM sorry but this is simply silly...two virgins having protected sex=0% of any kind of STD..unless one was carried through birth...besides it sounds like possibly a friction bump or something from the latex. From what I have heard STD visual symtoms are quite distinct.