wishn
08-26-2004, 01:15 AM
Every since Friday hit, I feel like I have been hit with a ton of bricks. Achy, yucky, headache, sore, burny, dizzy :rolleyes: oh the list just grows more and more think'n about it :eek: . It's not rainy, which usually brings out the terrible pain I have been feeling lately. Probably it is my boss more than anything. She has been having her "bipolar episodes" more than ever and I am first in line for the attacks. The stress is getting me down. As soon as I start to feel better my resume will be updated and keep your fingers crossed for me....to find a good place to land at. It's so difficult to move on with this fibro...
:( :( :( Annie feeling badly....
:( :( :( Annie feeling badly....
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Icefire
08-26-2004, 10:02 AM
You know Annie, your health is more important than any job. You keep talking about this boss, she could be causing a lot of your problems. Why can't you start sending your resume out? I know it's easier said than done, I quit my job after 15 years. Change is always hard but if this person is putting you in such a way all of the time, it just isn't worth it. I know that you need a job, but you don't need such aggravation on a daily basis.
Chris
Chris
pa235
08-26-2004, 10:47 AM
HI Annie, Sorry you are not doing well, am going through a bad time myself, floaty feeling in my head, neck and upper back pain, plus the ibs had to start in.
I agree, if you work place is stressful you need to find something else, we have enough stress in our lives with pain besides having to work under it.
Linda
I agree, if you work place is stressful you need to find something else, we have enough stress in our lives with pain besides having to work under it.
Linda
LadyMasters
08-26-2004, 05:34 PM
:wave: I'll echo everyone else here by saying I am sorry you're hurting so much :eek: but do consider if your boss is your trigger. Also careful your not getting the pneumonia that has been here (MO) There's a number of us who have had it in this area. If you start running high fever and coughing, I'd suggest heading to Doc to make sure.
taurus3
08-27-2004, 12:02 AM
Hi Annie,
So sorry you're feeling bad. I appreciate you so much. You know, the gang is right about trying to find another job. I quit a job working for a horribly abusive man four years ago and it was right after that my lupus went into remission. I stayed five years because he paid better than anyone else in town. But it wasn't worth the stress or humiliation.
Take care of yourself and remember that this flare will pass just like all the others have. Try to do something nice for yourself.
Love Andy
So sorry you're feeling bad. I appreciate you so much. You know, the gang is right about trying to find another job. I quit a job working for a horribly abusive man four years ago and it was right after that my lupus went into remission. I stayed five years because he paid better than anyone else in town. But it wasn't worth the stress or humiliation.
Take care of yourself and remember that this flare will pass just like all the others have. Try to do something nice for yourself.
Love Andy
wishn
08-27-2004, 12:20 AM
Thank you all for the support. Yes I do know that I have to get away from this situation and I am working on my resume. As you all know, when having this fibro and of course stress brings it down more....I can't seem to get the energy and strenght to get myself where I should be in order to interview. You walk into a business and appear feeling so badly you can barely stand, you are not going to be their top choice. But I do know this will never get any better with the boss....everyone is stressed and burned out from her. I know the thing that works against me so much is the fact that I always think I can change a situation like this, make it better. It's within me and makes it so hard as you feel like your giving up on something you could improve. I know it is now past that...believe me I know it. It's pushing myself a little harder now. Thank you again for the support....I will need it as I start this ball rolling. I care about each and every one of you and so much appreciate your kindness. Annie