I know it sounds silly as topic, but I know a few people who say they are told to be beautiful but they dont think they are because they dont correspond to their own idea of beauty. I thought this could help us as some of us will inevitably mention some of the features another person might have but doesnt appreciate. So lets share!

I think a healthy woman is beautiful, whether she is plus sized or thin. Healthy hair, skin, nails..it all contributes to a beautiful woman. Above all, a woman's personality makes the biggest contribution to her beauty. Self confidence is also very attractive especially with a smile. Just my opinion.. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif

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I think a woman is beautiful if she thinks she is.
A woman who thinks she is beautiful carries herself with grace, poise and confidence whether she is a big girl or thin. I don't mean the kind that thinks she's all that!! Just simple self respect.

True beauty shines from within. The kind of person that you are makes you beautiful.

If you are talking about physical attractiveness, PERSONALLY I think the most beautiful women I've ever seen are Victoria Silvstedt, Nikki Ziering, Brande Roderick, and Nadia Bjorlin.

I think any woman having a "fresh, clean, healthy" look is beautiful. Someone who is not overdone or overprocessed.

Good skin (I think freckles are adorable), bright eyes, healthy hair (dried-out, overprocessed hair tooks terrible, IMO), white teeth.

Neat, clean clothes.

Women who dress modestly and decently and have shining eyes and who smiles sincerely are beautiful. Women who are opposite of beautiful are the ones who dress slutty and are stuck up. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/gabby.gif

I don't think there is really a definition of beauty. I don't think blonde hair blue eyes is always beautiful. I think Britney Spreas is beautiful because she gets a lot of flack from people and she keeps smiling and doing what makes her happy. I also think Ricki Lake is beautiful because she has a heart of gold and would give the shirt off her back to help someone. I think someone that is genuine is beautiful. There is nothing more un-attractive than fake arrogance (sp). I have horrible skin but, I think I'm beautiful. I think a good sense of humor goes above and beyone anyone's physical appearance. I think that what is beautiful to me is not beautiful to the next person. Example: Someone posted that freckles are beautiful, I have freckles and I always thought that people were turned off by them (I guess not). Don't think you are ugly because of your skin. That is just a small portion of who you are. Just let the other things shine and stop putting yourself down!

[This message has been edited by KC Lee (edited 09-14-2002).]

I find all sorts of women beautiful. The most important thing is a healthy look, whether you are slim or heavy. Good grooming and posture is extremely important, as well as being feminine and graceful. As for physical beauty I like a voluptuous figure like Anna Nicole Smith (when she was first modeling)or Marilyn Monroe. Facially, I think Kate Winslet is beautiful (and her shape!) and I loved Krissy Taylor's look. I also think Giselle is absolutely gorgeous. I think there is a fine line between dressing sexy and slutty. I don't think any woman should be afraid to flaunt her figure in a sexy way, as long as it is still tasteful. I have big breasts and even in a tank top it is hard not to look "sexy". I hated them when I was younger, but I kind of enjoy them now, and I have learned to make the most of them and enjoy what I have.

A strong woman who can take every situation with ease. A woman who will not allow the small things in life to drag her down, but hold her head up high and see the new day. She is a true friend, and lives her life in an honest way. She has her values, and doesn't sway. She keeps an open mind, and allows people to be who they are. She can be single and happy, she is her own best friend, and has a blast even when alone. She believes in herself, knowing she can accomplish anything she chooses. She is strong at heart and healthy in spirit. She is a beautiful woman.

Originally posted by Tamsin:
For those who answered with such, how do you define feminine?

To me feminine is soft and sweet. Soft hair and hands. Someone that can bring attention to herself in a sexy way (not sleazy). Someone that can look into someones eyes and make them melt.

ANY beautiful person, not just a woman, is not about looks. It is someone who cares for others, takes time out of their lives to give someone a helping hand, and someone who loves everyone despite all the obstacles in life that there may be (race/religion/heritage/etc.)...once you see this, anyone with a gracious and compassionate heart is truly beautiful.

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" (can't remember who said this first)

Actually any woman who is/looks healthy and smiles a lot is beautiful (IMO)

"Actually any woman who is/looks healthy and smiles a lot is beautiful"

Aha, and there's where once again having good skin comes into play -and good teeth! On that note I highly recommend Crest White Strips and J&J's Clean and Clear invisible blemish treatment. I dealt with acne most my life until I discovered the invisible blemish treatment -now, at 30yo, as long as I use the Clean and Clear every night I have perfect skin (if I skip one night, or even if I miss a spot I will still get breakouts a few days later), never thought I would ever have that and now I do and it's so cheap and easy! I actually can go without any foundation and get compliments on my skin instead of constantly being told I should do something about my skin (never mind the strict diet I adhered to, the rigorous cleansing rituals, the fortune spent on acne medication, including accutane and even taking birth control pills just to help some, ack! No more though, now I just spend about $5 every 3 months and have beautiful skin!)

I think a beautiful woman is someone who is simple inside and out. Someone who does not wear so much make-up just to make her look good. A person who looks good even without make-up. Someone who is true to herself and exudes self-confidence.