Hi all. First post here.

I recently broke it off with my G/F of 4.5 years. Was a mutual choice and we want to see where we end up. Anyways I have met someone I am attracted to that I used to work with (worked in different department so rarely saw each other) but we never spoke. Things are good at the moment, only I am a little worried about what will happen if we become intimate. You see I could not make my ex orgasm, even though I would work at it for up to three hours. It just did not happen. We did everything possible, but she just wouldent.....or she didnt know she was doing it. Sometimes I could not keep going cause she was all tingly and ticklish down there. This led me to think what the hell is going on??? Anyways, the new women is 26, and I am 21. I feel like I am under a great amount of presure to perform if and when we do become intimate. And with no apparent success with my ex, Its not very encouraging. I am confident and will do anything, so thats not my problem, I just dont want her thinking I am no good. The other thing that doesnt help is she is really hot, and thir is a lot of lust between us and I am not sure If i can control myself if we get to that stage. I may not last long at all. Would women find this bad, or good because they would know I am really excited? Any help would be great. Thanks in advance.

Successful love making is a team effort. Both of you are responsible for your own and each other's orgasms. Just because you and your previous gf never got it right for her, doesn't mean things won't click with your new one. In fact, the new one might be more experienced, and actually be able to point you in all the right directions better than your past gf could. I would look at this as an opportunity to learn from someone who actually knows what she's doing. This is a good thing, given your past experience...

As for your excitement at the beginning, that could easily be considered a compliment, just make sure you're good for a second round if the first one is too quick.