wow, I just happened on this healthboard topic, My FEAR is the dentist, no way is it a silly fear. I was born in 66, in the late 60's early 70's dental care was still pretty primative. But. my Mother would tell the MD that if I acted up, that they could disapline me, so if I would cry, I was "smacked", then I had whatever work needed to be done. I also had a sedative, then gas, on my own & scared out of my mind, not knowing how it would affect me down the line. One thing that has worked for me in the past (but need to heed to it today), is to make all my appoinments on Monday, first thing. If it was later in the day, or the week, I would not show. I had a great MD working with me. But I moved, & my dental work is a topic with me that scares me the most with all aspects. (I think my over all health is affected by poor dental condtion). Good luck to you, & let me know how you did !!