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sweetangelbaby
11-19-2004, 01:04 PM
my dad died when i was only a baby. i wish i could have gotten to meet him when i got older but i never did. it hurts me all the time that i never got to meet my dad. he died in a car wreck. my mom died earlier this year to cancer. and just recently i had a miscarriage and i have been really down bout losing the baby. i know i am young. but can anybody help with this.


also i have been looking for my sisters and my oldest brother. they got taken away from my mom and dad. i have there dob and i know where they were at the time they were two of them got adopted. any advice on this also would help cuz i am going to hate to have to tell them bout our parents dying.

warqueen
12-15-2004, 10:59 PM
my dad died when i was only a baby. i wish i could have gotten to meet him when i got older but i never did. it hurts me all the time that i never got to meet my dad. he died in a car wreck. my mom died earlier this year to cancer. and just recently i had a miscarriage and i have been really down bout losing the baby. i know i am young. but can anybody help with this.


also i have been looking for my sisters and my oldest brother. they got taken away from my mom and dad. i have there dob and i know where they were at the time they were two of them got adopted. any advice on this also would help cuz i am going to hate to have to tell them bout our parents dying.
in a way i know how you are feeling. ive never meet my dad eather not that hes dead just never there it can be real hard. what made me right to you is i also hove 3 brothers that were stolen by there dad when i was little,i didnt see them in 11 years then i got to see them 2 years ago i stayed down there for a year with my mom then she made us move back.i dont feel ill ever see them again and its hard.
the best thing i can say to you is be strong. dont let these toughts get you down,they can be really over powering at times so make sure you talk with close friends and grab a shoulder and cry.
i know before i got to see my brothers again i thought i wouldnt but i always had a feeling in my heart i would and i didnt let go of it.
then all the sudden i got a phone call and there they were.
dont give up hope on them if they know about you i know they want to see you just as bad.i hope something i said helped im not very good at advise but at least you know that your not alone.good luck. dont give up hope ill pray for you!!!

bluelakelady
01-06-2005, 02:49 PM
sweetangelbaby,
{REMOVED} . post your notes and cross your fingers. my sis found her son and he found her all within 6 months. that was 3 years ago. i love having my nephew back.
i had 2 miscarriages before i got my wonderful son. he is 26. both my fathers are gone now. one when i was a baby, he took off, then last year he surfaced and died. i spoke at his memorial. i did it for the family he had been in for 26 years. they loved him very much. i never knew my birth dad. i am 49 now and racing toward 50. you do find your peace. your dad is alive in you. look within your heart and you will find the heart of your father.
remember little sister, you are a member of a very large family. the human family. we are all family.
peace,
bluelakelady

 
 
 




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