I hate shaving, is there any cream I can use to remove hair? or anything I can buy over the counter? I don't want wax (ouch!), something that wouldn't hurt and wouldn't cause the hair to grow back so fast.

There are lots of hair removal creams out there. they can damage your skin though. I used veet on my chest and it gave me bad ingrowns. also where I use to have little blond hairs I now have thick black ones