let me share my dilema. I was at a dance club and a girl swallowed my beer bottle with her vagina. I took a 20 dollar bet to drink it, thinking I would break even at the end of the night. Well, I have already spent $20.00 at the health clinic. Head cold on the 18th day, thrush on the 21st day, I tested on the 25th day. Health clinic did a urethra culture and a throat culture. Negative on everthing except my slide smear had a couple white blood cells. No treatment necessary. Didn't even emphasize coming back in 90 days, well now I have symptoms of IBS and I have lost 10 pounds. Swollen vessels around the anus are still there. Thrush comes and goes mostly still there though heavy on the back of my tongue and then a thin white coating to the tip. Abdominal pains, achy joints, off colored stool, I have a partner and before I noticed anything we celebrated my return and she seems to have IBS and cramping. Praying all the time, please help, I want this to be such an educating experience. I am never going to another club or getting around guys I don't know again. Any suggestions on if this is how ARS works and what about antibodies after eleven days of symptoms. Does ARS last this long four weeks so far. Also, white blood cells in your bowl movements, would that look like floating oil pills? Catching HIV is a very bad but giving it to someone you love would be detremental.