2 weeks ago i was fooling around with an exboyfriend. even though we didn't have sex, exactly 7 days later i had severe itching around my cit area. it was really red and swollen but that was it. my dr. thought it was a yeast infection so i treated it for that, but that only made the itching stop. it has been 7 days since my problem started and my clit area is still swollen and looks like raw skin. There aren't any bumps but i think i have the symptoms of herpes. i also happened to have a cold this week and my sore throat won't go away.

Do you think these are signs of herpes?
Is it possible to have the disease and not have sores?