at first i didnt believe that talking to people on a message board was going to help me any..but i was completely wrong! i got the chance to talk to women that i didnt know, and get opinions that didnt make me feel uncomfortable or nervous or uneasy in anyway..i know that right now with the issue that i came to the board with, that i would not be able to talk as openly and freely as i did here, and be able to get an honest and not irrational answer. coming here has given me a little piece of mind, and i just think that it is a wonderful place, and i will be coming back here way more often for any of my health concerns if i dont want to worry the immediate people in my life before i know something for sure. thanks again, the help was wonderful :-)