i just discovered that i have vulva cancer. i need to go for a vulvectomy on 2nd may. i am angry at my gp for not picking up these syptoms earlier. i am totaly confused, hurting and cant stop crying. i am engaged to be married. will i ever have a normal sex life again?

So sorry to hear your news. I discovered a wonderful, supportive website that is for women dealing with various female cancers when I was diagnoised with cervical cancer. Check it out eyesontheprize.org Good Luck.

Ronel, I am glad to see that you went to eyesontheprize and joined the list. Hope the ladies can give you the support and encouragement that you need. I feel proud that I might have helped you find a place that can possibly help you and answer all those nagging questions that only someone who has been there can answer! (((secret pal)))