Katkin
02-23-2005, 01:48 PM
Hello everyone!
I just got off the phone from the ENT doctor (she was kind enough to give me a phone appointment as I felt too rotten to travel over there).
Since I last went I have learned a lot more about inner-ear/balance problems and I questioned her as to why I had never been told about VRT or CBT.
She told me that as far as VRT is concerned the leaflet handed out with a few exercises on were VRT and the physio department is so packed they just give ENT department leaflets to hand out and the only other thing that they would offer in the physio department on top of those basic exercises is a bit of encouragement.
But I know that this isn’t strictly true – I’ve read that VRT is much more effective when tailored to a specific patient’s needs/capabilities etc. Plus these are just a few little exercises that aren’t really ‘proper’ VRT as far as I am aware. Also with your recovery and development surely you need to alter the exercises to match your changing state.
She said that in my notes the doctor I last saw (I usually see a different one every time even though she is the main one) suggested that I seek counselling (he thought the “feeling weird/disorientated and brain fog – resulting in my anxiety were psychological and just anxiety PAH!). Anyway I HAVE got a counsellor now (for the anxiety and to discuss other things in my past). We agreed that this was good as I can also do some CBT with the counselor.
I also asked her why if they think I have BPPV (their latest guess lol) I hadn’t been told about the Modified Epley Maneuver which could well be helpful for me to do at home. She said “Oh you saw Mr Blah Blah on so and so date and he did the Epley Manuever on you then.” I said, I know and I did feel a bit better afterwards but soon felt rotten again.” She said that you normally only have to do it once for it to be effective – well obviously NOT! Grr! And also - I read yesterday the results of a study where people did the MEM 3 times a day for a while and felt a lot better after a week.
She told me (probably rightly so for legal reasons) that she cannot advise me on whether to do this or not. I’m sure they could have informed me of it (if they knew about it humpf!)
Ok now then this is the MAIN POINT and the most ANNOYING bit:
I also asked her why she thought my condition was changing (from very unstable balance and not being able to tip my head and waking up around every 2 weeks with the room spinning) to not so severe dizziness and usually less frequent but with worse brainfog, disorientation and anxiety.
I asked whether she thought it was compensation – she didn’t even answer this. She said that an inner ear problem SHOULDN’T CAUSE BRAINFOG AND DISORIENTATION!!!!
I was literally begging her to believe me that I know a lot of other people now with the same/similar condition and a lot of them all feel very similar.
She didn’t seem to BELIEVE me or KNOW that a lot of us have brain fog and feel disorientated!!! The brainfog and disorientation is the worst part for me and it’s a scary thought that a DOCTOR was telling me it’s not anything to do with my inner-ear problems. THANK GOD for the lovely people on this message board which basically prove to me that it IS or I would probably be out of my mind with worry now.
And I said “if you see all these people with a similar condition to mine as the other doctors have told me – why don’t you know that it can cause this?” She said “I don’t know.”
I mentioned maybe I should see a Neuro-otologist and she told me that anywhere else I went would just do the same tests as they have carried out there. But I’m sure that they might at least KNOW that this can cause cognative problems, brainfog and disorientation.
WHY doesn’t she know this?!
What with this lack of knowledge and the handing out of leaflets instead of proper VRT, it really seems that corners are being cut with people’s health and LIVES. Very horrible and scary thought!
It is annoying that she obviously doesn’t completely know this subject as she claims to (and she is a specialist whom you can – and I have - also pay to see privately). She told me that she can only tell me what she has learned from her text books etc. Well maybe they SHOULD check out more modern studies. I wish I’d been in front of my PC with all the facts and names to prove to her that what I was saying is true! I told her that I wished so much that I could show this site and the other information I have learned from it to her and her colleagues!! Bah!
Yes she is an ENT, not a Neuro-otologist but if she, herself tells me that she doesn’t think I need to go elsewhere then she should do her job properly as a doctor and KNOW what she’s talking about!
She said I can seek out information where I like if I feel that’s the path I want to take and to maybe ask my GP to be referred elsewhere for a 2nd opinion.
She seemed really annoyed that I was questioning their treatment of me and that I seemed to know more about it than her.
As she was about to go (kind of huffily) I said can I tell her one more thing – that nearly ever person I know that has this or similar condition also has anxiety because of it and she said “I know” so then WHY do they go “ooh it sounds psychological”, make you feel like you’re making it up and why don’t they do more to help us, and know more about it?? It’s their job!! I had also said to her several times that the only reason I am anxious is because this thing makes me feel so awful!
She left me with little useful information to be honest and she seemed more concerned with (and stressy about) the fact that I had done my own research and didn’t seem to trust her and her colleagues’ word, than actually trying to help me. There was also no encouragement or recognition for the huge struggle I am having with this thing. Infact when I mentioned to her that when they had signed me off a few months ago ‘cos I seemed to be getting better on the one hand it had felt good because it was like they were saying I was getting better but on the other hand it was scary because I had lost that support if I needed it. She said “I don’t know why you DO need our help so much!” HUH!!!
My Mum suggested that I have a phone appointment with my GP.
I called and got an appointment – she called me back within an hour or so! She was REALLY understanding and told me that this region is seriously underfunded and sometimes the medical staff don’t even get to hear of facilities etc that are out there.
She also told me that consultants often also only ask questions that they want to hear the answers to and often don’t ask enough or the right questions to truly find out how a patient is feeling. (So that might be why they didn’t know about the brain-fog etc).
She told me that the physios at her surgery do a bit of VRT and give you more time than the physios at the hospital so she has put me down to see them. And she checked that I was seeing a counsellor who was doing a bit of CBT with me. (She basically listened to what I was saying should have been done/felt were important and tried to make it happen for me). I thanked her for being so nice and helpful and told her she’d made me feel a bit better. I got off the phone and called my Mum to tell her how it had gone and I just cried because the ENT Dr was so horrible/unhelpful to me and also the relief that someone (my GP) was FINALLY actually LISTENING to what I was saying, BELIEVING me and trying to HELP ME!!!
Sorry I just needed to vent and let you know some stuff!!!
Hope you’re all good and *huge healing hugs*!!
Katkin xxxx
I just got off the phone from the ENT doctor (she was kind enough to give me a phone appointment as I felt too rotten to travel over there).
Since I last went I have learned a lot more about inner-ear/balance problems and I questioned her as to why I had never been told about VRT or CBT.
She told me that as far as VRT is concerned the leaflet handed out with a few exercises on were VRT and the physio department is so packed they just give ENT department leaflets to hand out and the only other thing that they would offer in the physio department on top of those basic exercises is a bit of encouragement.
But I know that this isn’t strictly true – I’ve read that VRT is much more effective when tailored to a specific patient’s needs/capabilities etc. Plus these are just a few little exercises that aren’t really ‘proper’ VRT as far as I am aware. Also with your recovery and development surely you need to alter the exercises to match your changing state.
She said that in my notes the doctor I last saw (I usually see a different one every time even though she is the main one) suggested that I seek counselling (he thought the “feeling weird/disorientated and brain fog – resulting in my anxiety were psychological and just anxiety PAH!). Anyway I HAVE got a counsellor now (for the anxiety and to discuss other things in my past). We agreed that this was good as I can also do some CBT with the counselor.
I also asked her why if they think I have BPPV (their latest guess lol) I hadn’t been told about the Modified Epley Maneuver which could well be helpful for me to do at home. She said “Oh you saw Mr Blah Blah on so and so date and he did the Epley Manuever on you then.” I said, I know and I did feel a bit better afterwards but soon felt rotten again.” She said that you normally only have to do it once for it to be effective – well obviously NOT! Grr! And also - I read yesterday the results of a study where people did the MEM 3 times a day for a while and felt a lot better after a week.
She told me (probably rightly so for legal reasons) that she cannot advise me on whether to do this or not. I’m sure they could have informed me of it (if they knew about it humpf!)
Ok now then this is the MAIN POINT and the most ANNOYING bit:
I also asked her why she thought my condition was changing (from very unstable balance and not being able to tip my head and waking up around every 2 weeks with the room spinning) to not so severe dizziness and usually less frequent but with worse brainfog, disorientation and anxiety.
I asked whether she thought it was compensation – she didn’t even answer this. She said that an inner ear problem SHOULDN’T CAUSE BRAINFOG AND DISORIENTATION!!!!
I was literally begging her to believe me that I know a lot of other people now with the same/similar condition and a lot of them all feel very similar.
She didn’t seem to BELIEVE me or KNOW that a lot of us have brain fog and feel disorientated!!! The brainfog and disorientation is the worst part for me and it’s a scary thought that a DOCTOR was telling me it’s not anything to do with my inner-ear problems. THANK GOD for the lovely people on this message board which basically prove to me that it IS or I would probably be out of my mind with worry now.
And I said “if you see all these people with a similar condition to mine as the other doctors have told me – why don’t you know that it can cause this?” She said “I don’t know.”
I mentioned maybe I should see a Neuro-otologist and she told me that anywhere else I went would just do the same tests as they have carried out there. But I’m sure that they might at least KNOW that this can cause cognative problems, brainfog and disorientation.
WHY doesn’t she know this?!
What with this lack of knowledge and the handing out of leaflets instead of proper VRT, it really seems that corners are being cut with people’s health and LIVES. Very horrible and scary thought!
It is annoying that she obviously doesn’t completely know this subject as she claims to (and she is a specialist whom you can – and I have - also pay to see privately). She told me that she can only tell me what she has learned from her text books etc. Well maybe they SHOULD check out more modern studies. I wish I’d been in front of my PC with all the facts and names to prove to her that what I was saying is true! I told her that I wished so much that I could show this site and the other information I have learned from it to her and her colleagues!! Bah!
Yes she is an ENT, not a Neuro-otologist but if she, herself tells me that she doesn’t think I need to go elsewhere then she should do her job properly as a doctor and KNOW what she’s talking about!
She said I can seek out information where I like if I feel that’s the path I want to take and to maybe ask my GP to be referred elsewhere for a 2nd opinion.
She seemed really annoyed that I was questioning their treatment of me and that I seemed to know more about it than her.
As she was about to go (kind of huffily) I said can I tell her one more thing – that nearly ever person I know that has this or similar condition also has anxiety because of it and she said “I know” so then WHY do they go “ooh it sounds psychological”, make you feel like you’re making it up and why don’t they do more to help us, and know more about it?? It’s their job!! I had also said to her several times that the only reason I am anxious is because this thing makes me feel so awful!
She left me with little useful information to be honest and she seemed more concerned with (and stressy about) the fact that I had done my own research and didn’t seem to trust her and her colleagues’ word, than actually trying to help me. There was also no encouragement or recognition for the huge struggle I am having with this thing. Infact when I mentioned to her that when they had signed me off a few months ago ‘cos I seemed to be getting better on the one hand it had felt good because it was like they were saying I was getting better but on the other hand it was scary because I had lost that support if I needed it. She said “I don’t know why you DO need our help so much!” HUH!!!
My Mum suggested that I have a phone appointment with my GP.
I called and got an appointment – she called me back within an hour or so! She was REALLY understanding and told me that this region is seriously underfunded and sometimes the medical staff don’t even get to hear of facilities etc that are out there.
She also told me that consultants often also only ask questions that they want to hear the answers to and often don’t ask enough or the right questions to truly find out how a patient is feeling. (So that might be why they didn’t know about the brain-fog etc).
She told me that the physios at her surgery do a bit of VRT and give you more time than the physios at the hospital so she has put me down to see them. And she checked that I was seeing a counsellor who was doing a bit of CBT with me. (She basically listened to what I was saying should have been done/felt were important and tried to make it happen for me). I thanked her for being so nice and helpful and told her she’d made me feel a bit better. I got off the phone and called my Mum to tell her how it had gone and I just cried because the ENT Dr was so horrible/unhelpful to me and also the relief that someone (my GP) was FINALLY actually LISTENING to what I was saying, BELIEVING me and trying to HELP ME!!!
Sorry I just needed to vent and let you know some stuff!!!
Hope you’re all good and *huge healing hugs*!!
Katkin xxxx

