I'm hoping someone can tell me what to do or say to help my friend. He just found out three days ago that his brother has a kind of lung cancer(starts with a "c") and he is in 4th stage. He has two in brain that they were able to shrink a little , i guess for immediate relief. They gave him 3-6 months. I, myself have advanced lupus and i view these things a little differently than most. I have taken control of my own treatment and have been very successful with keeping my symptoms at bay for over a year now, but i have extensive training in self healing and alternative treatments of disease, my friend does not. I can teach him not to have fear or to teach his brother how to think to allow his body to do naturally what god designed it to do . it took me years to get to where i am now. He asked me to do some reserch for him and when i began to serch the net i found nothing that would help me help him. I will be honest i do not know what im looking for and i feel helpless to give any support. I must be able to do more than just "be there" i simply have to find something amid the vast seas of info that will provide some understanding and support. I need help. Im not use to talking to some one about cancer who does not see things from the metaphysical view point that i do

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