I have been posting about my xanax problem and have been reading the posts here and noticed alot of discussion on weed use. In the past I have smoked, but havent in the past years due to anxiety. My boyfriend is a driffrent story. I'll go through his day and get you all out put on this.
In the moring he wakes up before work. He gets ready then smokes a bowl of pot this is off to work.
Lunch time comes he gets a hour lunch break so he comes home eats lunch then has another bowl.
After work he has another bowl, then agian before dinner, after dinner, once more before shower, the once agian before bed. He somkes a little over half a oz every week. The weekend he smokes more.
He's high all day long. If for somereason he can't get high he's in a horrable mood. We can't go on vacations because he cant go w/o smoking.
We get into fights over this all the time. He's 23 and we have been together for 5 years or so and it has always been like this. I know he will never change.
Is there anyone out there whos like this. They say pot is not addicting, but I HIGHLY disagree . He is mentally addicted. He thinks he HAS to be high all the time. Before we leave the house to go shopping, or to do anything he has to smoke a bowl first. And if were going to be gone awile he has to bring something to smoke.
It's really getting on my nerves how much he smokes. I know I eather have to deal w/ it or leave him because he will not stop smoking it.
Any advice or comments?
Thanks agian all,
J

Hi There, It seems that his smoking is quite excessive. If i were in your shoes i too would be quite upset about it. When i was married to my first husband he too was a pot smoker. I hated it sooooooo much. We never had much money as he was a loser, but if he somehow got 5 dollars, regardless if the baby had diapers or we had no food, he would spend that money on a nickel bag. I never allowed him to smoke it around my son and he knew just how adament i was about that, it got to the point i couldnt leave my son with him for 10 minutes to run to the store because as soon as i left he would smoke in the house with the baby. Needless to say, I LEFT!!! I wanted a better life for my son and myself. I am not saying that i am all innocent. I know what it is like to smoke and get high, i never really liked it much and the last time i ever smoked it was about 16 years ago.


we can all tell you our own experiences and what we would do, but when it comes down to it, this is going to be your own personnal choice. Just ask yourself "Is this something i want to live with and deal with the rest of my life?" Do you have children? If not or if so, do you want your children to know and have a father who is high all the time? Or who may smoke it around the children? These are just some of the questions you need to ask yourself. Only you hold the answer. I wish you all the luck and happiness in the world and i hope you make a good choice that is right for you. I know what i would do.
Hugs, ValleyGurl

Thanks so much for telling me your exsperance.
No I have no chrildren and do want them later in life.
I have asked myself thoes questions many times. We have even talked about it before. I know theres many parents out there that get high and rase chrildren, without them around it or near it. I love him, I just hate the weed. He's down stears smoking it now. I don't really know what to do. I always thought if he loves me enough he'll quit... but I dont see that happening.