scarlett_
04-22-2005, 08:33 PM
I notice a sore like thing on my boyfriend's penis the other day and I was just wondering if anyone knew what it could be... the first thing that came to mind was Herpes so I looked at some info and pictures on the internet - but it doesn't seem to look like the pictures I saw. It's not a bump, there have been no blisters or scabs, it's just red and kind of looks like he got a scratch but it's dry. Doesn't look like a spot either... neither of use has had any symptoms if this before... :confused:
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PrittyGreenEyez
04-22-2005, 08:38 PM
An ingrown hair? A small cut that's irritated? Warts? Could be something, but alot of times could be nothing.
scarlett_
04-22-2005, 08:53 PM
Nope definitely not a wart... yeah could just be a cut... Not worrying too much about it at the moment... not like there's anything I can do at this stage... it's either something or its not.
Lonely123A
04-25-2005, 10:53 AM
Scarlett,
how long has it been there ?? is there any discomfort with it???? i would definetly not have sex of any kind until you know for sure that it is gone. My concern would be herpes, my boyfriend (now my husband) had a spot on his penis that started out red and then turned into a sore and we found out it was herpes, we got some medicine to treat it and it went away. That was a couple of years ago, and no more since then, and thankfully I have not had any outbreaks, but you never know if i will get it or not, and he may never get it again, but thats unlikely........ So just be careful because if it is herpes you definetly don't want to get it. We stopped sex until after it was completely healed up. Good luck
how long has it been there ?? is there any discomfort with it???? i would definetly not have sex of any kind until you know for sure that it is gone. My concern would be herpes, my boyfriend (now my husband) had a spot on his penis that started out red and then turned into a sore and we found out it was herpes, we got some medicine to treat it and it went away. That was a couple of years ago, and no more since then, and thankfully I have not had any outbreaks, but you never know if i will get it or not, and he may never get it again, but thats unlikely........ So just be careful because if it is herpes you definetly don't want to get it. We stopped sex until after it was completely healed up. Good luck
scarlett_
04-26-2005, 08:45 AM
It's gone now. It never hurn or anything. I just wish he would stop pressuring me to have sex with him. I'm just trying to be careful. He says that he's not making me do anything and it's all my choice, but he keeps suggesting it when he knows I'm not sure. I really don't like that about him.
shawley
04-26-2005, 08:50 AM
;) Make Sure He Wraps It Up !!!!
scarlett_
04-26-2005, 09:01 AM
that would be of use if he knew how to use condoms correctly. i tried to tell him to learn how to use them but i get the "it must have been from a bad batch" line. funny how they're all from a bad batch...
Lonely123A
04-26-2005, 11:06 PM
Scarlett,
Oh honey, please find someone that can teach him to use a condom, it is very important. Tell him to go onlie and type it up under a search engine, it is worth both of your guys health to use protection. take care and good luck
Oh honey, please find someone that can teach him to use a condom, it is very important. Tell him to go onlie and type it up under a search engine, it is worth both of your guys health to use protection. take care and good luck
scarlett_
04-27-2005, 06:20 AM
I'll try again. He just gets so offended about that kind of thing. I have some redness at the moment which is not good - I guess I didn't see that mark on him in time. I am so sick of having to look after with checking myself and him for things. We are having an arguement at the moment because of all of this. He claims that the internet is not good at providing accurate info (which is somewhat true) but I am not going to assume it's nothing like he does - he didn't even know about Gonnorhea or Chlamydia until he found out he had one of them... To be honest I've still been feeling really angry since the whole him giving me Gonnorhea thing. Whenever we have an argument he gives out to me for going mad at nothing and then refuses to talk about it. It always ends up being ignored because he uses the same excuses again...
Lonely123A
04-27-2005, 06:53 AM
Scarlett,
I don't know if this well help to explain to him how to put a condom on, but it's worth a try !!!
"To use a condom correctly, pinch the end (the nipple) to get the air out prior to placing it on the head of the penis. This pinched-off space will be where the ejaculate collects and minimizes the risk of bursting the condom. Roll the condom down the shaft of the erection, covering as much skin as possible (many STDs can spread from skin to skin contact even if there are no open sores or rashes present)."
Good luck
also it is BS that he says that you are mad over nothing, an STD is a big something and it's easy for him to say its nothing, because he gave it to you, If you had given it to him, I am sure that you would NEVER hear the end of it..... Well Good luck, and take care, let me know if this description helps him with the condom..
I don't know if this well help to explain to him how to put a condom on, but it's worth a try !!!
"To use a condom correctly, pinch the end (the nipple) to get the air out prior to placing it on the head of the penis. This pinched-off space will be where the ejaculate collects and minimizes the risk of bursting the condom. Roll the condom down the shaft of the erection, covering as much skin as possible (many STDs can spread from skin to skin contact even if there are no open sores or rashes present)."
Good luck
also it is BS that he says that you are mad over nothing, an STD is a big something and it's easy for him to say its nothing, because he gave it to you, If you had given it to him, I am sure that you would NEVER hear the end of it..... Well Good luck, and take care, let me know if this description helps him with the condom..
scarlett_
04-27-2005, 08:35 AM
Thanks for the advice. It sucks that I have to pay for his ignorant attitude to stds. I love him and I think he loves me but I don't know how longer I can cope with his turning it around on me thing... I can somewhat accept that I could have this std. I can't accept his attitude.
crayola110
04-30-2005, 09:05 PM
Wow he sounds like an inconsiderate ***.... How could he treat you like this and claim to love you. Tell him to shape up or get rid of him... I'm a guy and would never do that crap to a girl.
Thanks for the advice. It sucks that I have to pay for his ignorant attitude to stds. I love him and I think he loves me but I don't know how longer I can cope with his turning it around on me thing... I can somewhat accept that I could have this std. I can't accept his attitude.
Thanks for the advice. It sucks that I have to pay for his ignorant attitude to stds. I love him and I think he loves me but I don't know how longer I can cope with his turning it around on me thing... I can somewhat accept that I could have this std. I can't accept his attitude.